Thanks for replying, she's just so vibrant. I see PBs attraction to her. She is the last partner we see PB have and the only one that actually chooses herself at a quicker pace than the rest. I think it shows her value as a character even though she wasn't around for long.
I think the main thing is Mr. PB is lazy with the little meaningful things that add up. He goes straight to huge extravagant gestures trying to make up for him being lazy with the little things.
You for sure need to tell her when she gets back asap. If you can be the first one to tell her then you may have something salvageable. Nothing good ever comes from withholding info like that. It WILL come out. Give yourself the opportunity to be the honest one and you guys may be able to fix this. Trust me. I'm sorry this happened man.
He had the same expression when he told her to go to bed, than left the door wide open. Just like here where he is just sitting there but with his legs open. I feel like he doesn’t want to only because he knows it’s wrong but not that he doesn’t want to, he wants to.
Also that situation reminds me about Bojacks actions a lot. He so badly wants to be the good guy and he has his moments. But ultimately…well, we know where this goes.
I'm sorry if this post triggered anyone…i received multiple concerned messages from Reddit. I am in the process of securing a new place. I've spent a lot of time grieving what I have lost here and am ready to move forward. Once the app is approved I am moving and I am ready to love my life. My will to live is back and I feel like the brain washing has been processed. I feel like I've been gone for quite some time. I missed myself so much and forgot how much light I had in me. I want to heal and be by myself until I can learn to treat others better and accept real love. I'm not religious bit I think God spoke to me somehow, it came out of nowhere and I felt it. I just want to be around the people that love me and love them back right. This life I'm living rn is very lonely and exhausting. This is not me.
From what I’ve been told by them…a few say that this is an abusive relationship, other say they don’t see the relationship going anywhere. I’ve thought myself to death. It’s like that all are putting there trauma on me like what happened to them is what’s happening to me and I’m not them I just need help navigating this. We love being around eachother people just don’t see it. But he has fucked up a lot.
I thought this too! No emotion, ended it while on his phone. She is the SWEETEST girl and all I thought was even being around someone who has a heart like that would make me protective about them as a person. He didn't care about her
Yes get her checked out but also make sure she is not being scammed, sometimes the scammers tell them not to tell anyone and have them mail hollowed out books full of cash and all kinds of crazy things. They talk to them on the phone for weeks and gain their trust.
sub-clinical narcissism, narcissistic personality disorder, and borderline personality disorder, which account for the vast majority of abusive people, are all trauma responses. So yes, the trauma made him that way. That doesn't mean you should stay with him.
I mean he was tortured and nearly killed by his parent. There is a loving person in there that she didn’t touch but the other side of him is extremely violent emotionally.
Wow, that is an extreme level of trauma for sure. I knew there was something there but I wasn't expecting it to be that bad, so it's understandable that you'd feel bad about leaving him. But the point I'm making about the wounded animal is that I'm not saying he's a rotten person or that it's his fault.
Also we absolutely have a trauma bind going on between us. He can’t leave even though he breaks up with me monthly but doesn’t mean it. And no, I don’t remember what past pain from him felt like. Now it’s like a ball in my stomach.
Omg this is so dumb. Don’t listen to these people. AND FOR THE LOVE OF GOD DONT LET SOMETHING SO DUMB BOTHER YOU
I love the innocence and optimism in her voice.
Thanks for replying, she's just so vibrant. I see PBs attraction to her. She is the last partner we see PB have and the only one that actually chooses herself at a quicker pace than the rest. I think it shows her value as a character even though she wasn't around for long.
That update is everything.
19….wow.
Never. I love it, Ill be young for only so long.
Ugh this is such a shit situation.
Plzz stop washing your face with the Castile soap, it’s way too harsh, get a gentle cleanser. My personal fave is the vanicream one
That was the first thing I noticed too. That is way too harsh on your skin.
I think the main thing is Mr. PB is lazy with the little meaningful things that add up. He goes straight to huge extravagant gestures trying to make up for him being lazy with the little things.
Great insight
You for sure need to tell her when she gets back asap. If you can be the first one to tell her then you may have something salvageable. Nothing good ever comes from withholding info like that. It WILL come out. Give yourself the opportunity to be the honest one and you guys may be able to fix this. Trust me. I'm sorry this happened man.
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Hit me hard..and soft.
He had the same expression when he told her to go to bed, than left the door wide open. Just like here where he is just sitting there but with his legs open. I feel like he doesn’t want to only because he knows it’s wrong but not that he doesn’t want to, he wants to.
Also that situation reminds me about Bojacks actions a lot. He so badly wants to be the good guy and he has his moments. But ultimately…well, we know where this goes.
Matthew Perry
Wow fucking mind blowing
😭😭🤌
Lol! These stats speak to the only type of people who could appreciate a show like Bojack horseman 😭
I'm sorry if this post triggered anyone…i received multiple concerned messages from Reddit. I am in the process of securing a new place. I've spent a lot of time grieving what I have lost here and am ready to move forward. Once the app is approved I am moving and I am ready to love my life. My will to live is back and I feel like the brain washing has been processed. I feel like I've been gone for quite some time. I missed myself so much and forgot how much light I had in me. I want to heal and be by myself until I can learn to treat others better and accept real love. I'm not religious bit I think God spoke to me somehow, it came out of nowhere and I felt it. I just want to be around the people that love me and love them back right. This life I'm living rn is very lonely and exhausting. This is not me.
From what I’ve been told by them…a few say that this is an abusive relationship, other say they don’t see the relationship going anywhere. I’ve thought myself to death. It’s like that all are putting there trauma on me like what happened to them is what’s happening to me and I’m not them I just need help navigating this. We love being around eachother people just don’t see it. But he has fucked up a lot.
I have this too and I kind of like it but to be fair I was an emo kid 😂
Ken is just full of himself. Dude hope your new IG fame makes you feel special
I thought this too! No emotion, ended it while on his phone. She is the SWEETEST girl and all I thought was even being around someone who has a heart like that would make me protective about them as a person. He didn't care about her
I wanna know an update on this in the next few weeks, fingers crossed it’s nothing serious
Yes get her checked out but also make sure she is not being scammed, sometimes the scammers tell them not to tell anyone and have them mail hollowed out books full of cash and all kinds of crazy things. They talk to them on the phone for weeks and gain their trust.
I didn’t know this. Omg that’s horrible
sub-clinical narcissism, narcissistic personality disorder, and borderline personality disorder, which account for the vast majority of abusive people, are all trauma responses. So yes, the trauma made him that way. That doesn't mean you should stay with him.
I mean he was tortured and nearly killed by his parent. There is a loving person in there that she didn’t touch but the other side of him is extremely violent emotionally.
Wow, that is an extreme level of trauma for sure. I knew there was something there but I wasn't expecting it to be that bad, so it's understandable that you'd feel bad about leaving him. But the point I'm making about the wounded animal is that I'm not saying he's a rotten person or that it's his fault.
Also we absolutely have a trauma bind going on between us. He can’t leave even though he breaks up with me monthly but doesn’t mean it. And no, I don’t remember what past pain from him felt like. Now it’s like a ball in my stomach.