I think if you can find a bi woman you'll be fine even in the Gen X/elder millennial range, in general. Of course anyone can have their baggage at our age so there's no accounting for individual trauma/issues.
Bi dudes are rad. Bi people are rad! I'm not everyone, but I'd consider it either neutral at worst, more likely gently positive. Your income hopes for a female partner, as others have noted, will be a more significant barrier (and I say that as a woman in tech). It's one thing to say "financially stable, no messes," but that kind of specific and very high hurdle will rule out a lot of cool, accepting people.
I didn't read that whole thing, but yes, a lot of women and femmes will date bi men. I personally VASTLY prefer to date not-straight men. But just like pretty much anything else, some won't. Women, like bi men, are not a hive mind.
Exactly this.. seems the wrong thing to (hyper) focus on, and would eliminate a sh**-ton of prospective women. (Most ppl aren’t making 6 figures, and the ones who do may not mesh with him at all.)
The only people who are hyper-focused on it are all the people who pointed it out to the exclusion of the rest of the majority of what I said. Oh that, and that I said I look young for my age. That's the other thing that's triggering all the insecurity.
How bad could it be? At least you don't have to pack.
I think if you can find a bi woman you'll be fine even in the Gen X/elder millennial range, in general. Of course anyone can have their baggage at our age so there's no accounting for individual trauma/issues.
I would absolutely love it if she found it erotic. 100%!
Bi dudes are rad. Bi people are rad! I'm not everyone, but I'd consider it either neutral at worst, more likely gently positive. Your income hopes for a female partner, as others have noted, will be a more significant barrier (and I say that as a woman in tech). It's one thing to say "financially stable, no messes," but that kind of specific and very high hurdle will rule out a lot of cool, accepting people.
Understood. Thanks for the feedback.
I didn't read that whole thing, but yes, a lot of women and femmes will date bi men. I personally VASTLY prefer to date not-straight men. But just like pretty much anything else, some won't. Women, like bi men, are not a hive mind.
Very true! Thanks for your comment. <3
Exactly this.. seems the wrong thing to (hyper) focus on, and would eliminate a sh**-ton of prospective women. (Most ppl aren’t making 6 figures, and the ones who do may not mesh with him at all.)
The only people who are hyper-focused on it are all the people who pointed it out to the exclusion of the rest of the majority of what I said. Oh that, and that I said I look young for my age. That's the other thing that's triggering all the insecurity.