A Quick and Dirty Guide to Dirty Talk
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I'm going to disagree here and assert that orgasmic experience is very subjective.
I spent over a decade trying to verify the different definitions and ways people used the Top/bottom, Dominant/submissive, Master/slave and couldn’t find a clear distinction that applied as the lines were very blurry and subject to each individuals preferred way of using the terms. The line between top/bottom was perhaps slightly clearer then the others.
'Top' and 'Bottom' are terms imported from the gay community and some people historically used them as synonyms for dominant and submissive.
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I don't think you're rambling and you'll need to have an open an honest discussion about your relationship and life goals with your current partner. I think that's pretty critical and your feelings might be less dominant drop than a relationship complication. For a person who is vanilla, this thing they can't be part of may take a lot of processing and it could be a journey for your partner. (It might help to talk to polyamorous people about how they manage multiple relationships.)
When your partner is using words like 'incompatible' that's often a sign that they don't feel like the relationship is going to work. If your partner is signaling that the relationship needs to end, that's a good sign that you should step back.
I personally don't have any experience sharing submissives but my understanding is that communicating clear boundaries around shared relationships are very important so that everyone manages the emotional space well.