English

Nice one but Spanish sounds a bit more romantic to my ears

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English so my family won't understand our inappropriate conversations by any chance. 🤣

I died. Hahaha

😂

It's really a tie between words of affirmation and physical touch. Both at the same time too 😆

Same! Followed very closely by quality time. (Could be all three at the same time, too, lol)

Me too

Sssaaamee

Quality time

Same

Where can I find this good sir/maam?

Same

Close second... Or third, the first place is occupied by Physical touch and Words UwU

Music

SO sending a playlist of songs they think you’d like>>>>>any other form of affection

Quality time with a smidge of physical touch (cuddles lol)

Quality time with deep discussion and words of affirmation woven throughout, finished with playing with my hair and slow, gentle kissing. And maybe a piece of chocolate. But also a salty peanut to balance the sweet chocolate.

The salty peanut 😂 it’s so funny because it’s so true!

Physical touch (not in a creepy way)

Boop

I honestly am a bit bothered by it

German; komm her liebling😍

Meinst Du mich?

Du bist mein Schatz :D

Being left alone, tbh

Underrated

Physical touch

Physical touch

Affirmation and touch

Act of service

Same

Same

Same here!

I always feel like it's physical touch and quality time, but when I really think about it, it's definitely acts of service

Quality time with physical touch as a close second

Affirmation and physical touch

Words of affirmation

Hugs, kisses and words of affirmation... That feeling of connection with someone and receiving that same energy from them.

I think physical touch and closely followed by words of affirmation.

Words of affirmation. I never had this in my entire life and now I feel like it's the only way I can feel validated.

Words. I love to hear what genuine things people have to say.

Exactly,i think that words truly are the most wonderful way to express emotions,and show your Partner warmth (if they are genuine of course)

I think this is my #1 pick too. Especially genuine words about emotions. There's just something special about deeply connecting after expressing inner feelings and understanding each other on a new level.

Touch. I love giving beard/scalp scritches, drawing with my finger on his back, unexpected rolled up towel spankings. 😈 Quality time also and food.

It's funny you should post this. Me and my husband (INFJ) just took a couple love language quizzes yesterday. My #1 love language was Quality Time. And then there was this love language quiz on Truity, that had 7 types, and I got Intellectual Style.

Physical touch and weird noises.

Gift giving

Gift giving/receiving

Is it cheating if I say all of them? Quality time + physical touch being top though.

I thought it was physical touch for the longest time but I've started to realize how much I value quality time. All of the love languages are things I appreciate personally though!

strangulation

touch touch touch!!!! and gifts, im a material gorl.

quality time

Service I think

P.T.

Probably acts of service? 🤔 I’m not sure tbh 😅

I think of it as what would make me feel least loved if my partner did not perform it. My answer is physical touch.

100% touch. I’m a veeeeery touchy-feely person lmao.

Touch touch touch, I love physical intimacy

Technically, as they're commonly categorized, mine is "acts of service". In reality that looks more like a very sapphic dinner date at home with a fancy meal I made sure you'd love.

definitely not Java

em, staring.

Acts of service

What is love ?

Words of affirmation

quality time + acts of service, but mainly quality time

Quality time, I have to really like the person to prefer them over alone time lmao

Yes yes 100% the same here!

I don't even truly know.

Words of affirmation and gifts

I’m not really sure yet but I think words of affirmation is a big one, I still remember compliments and encouragement given months ago.

No idea but last time I took the online test I think I got avoidant

That’s attachment style, not love languages!

Quality time :)

Quality Time.

Physical touch so someone does some good work back pat or shoulder smack. Second, quality time cause i love my people

Quality time ❤️

I think maybe quality time or physical touch

Physical Touch

Physical touch

Affection (ppl showing their emotions) + physical touch (not in a creepy way)

I gotta probably say supportiveness. Dunno if that’s a language but ya know.

Physical touch, quality time

Quality time

Klingon

Worf once described Klingon mating to Wesley Crusher as involving the male reading love poetry while ducking heavy objects (likely including furniture if available) thrown by the female.

memes

Spending time with the other and touch, I'm a fiend for cuddling and going to places like a farmers market

A tap on a shoulder :)

Food.

Physical touch

Communication

It’s a tie between Quality Time & Acts of Service…

physical touch

Quality time <3

My GF is INFP and hers are acts of service and physical touch.

It's a close call between words of affirmation and quality time, with quality time being maybe a bit higher.

Quality time and words of affirmation

Gift giving! I'm surprised it's so rare. I lovee showering people with presents especially ones that mean something to them and love to receive the same. This is closely followed by physical touch and quality time.

Quality time for me. Last would be gifts.

C#

Quality time and then words of affirmation.

Whenever I take the test, quality time and words of affirmation are nearly tied, but quality time always wins

I'm not sure since I haven't been in a relationship before, but poems

Acts of service

Words of affirmation.

affirmation and bubble tea

Eating your ass

Sindarin. Speak some sexy elvish to me ;P

Physical touch is #1 with quality time as a close second.

Everything. I'm so love starved.

Physical touch. I couldn’t have a relationship with someone that didn’t share that.

Making fun of you. I do that with anyone I’m close to though.

Silence under the night sky full of stars, just wind and us

Silence. And communication purely through eyes.

I always find it hard to even pick one.

Commiseration

Quality time and then Physical touch

Quality time

words of affirmation, 100%

Deep conversations and touch 🥰

Quality time with physical touch a very close second. I'm a hugger for sure and very physically affectionate.

French

Quality time is number 1 but I also love words of affirmation and physical touch. 😊

Sharing things with you (movies, music, time, artwork, food, ect.)

Music & Words of affirmation

Words of affirmation 100%

Quality time.

Compliments

Quality time and words of affirmation

Quality time and doing something for me that I would otherwise do

Touch

Words of affirmation and spending time together. -

quality time easily

Affirmation & quality time 💜

physical touch

Direct flirting, complementing and helping them in their chores.

Sharing our Emotions

Persian language

Bullying and teasing lowkey.

Acts of Service

Quality tiii… … …iime. It’s the only time I get to really open up, and I get that socializing an introvert needs.

Baguette

Acts of service and quality time!

Physical touch! Touch ta-touch touch eh-eh.

I can make time for you is my love language

As an INFP my love language is actually physical affection, i feel like words have a certain reach, but nothing hits like a heartfelt hug yk?

I didn't know mine for a long time but if find out about what people I love like or if they have a sickness like diabetes or can't eat gluten. I will try to bake or cook stuff that doesn't contain any harmful things or if they like something I will included it in those things or just buy tons of that stuff and gift it to them. Like my Brother has diabetes, everytime I see stuff without sugar (and now with not much Carbohydrates, he just recently told me that I have to be aware of that too) I buy it and gift it to him. Or my friend couldn't eat anything with gluten but we had a School trip soon, so I searched everywhere for food that doesn't contain it, searching how to bake bread that doesn't contain it, searched for noodles without it and a lot more stuff. I know that my Mother loves green and tulpis, so I painted her something containing it and bought her favorite chocolate. So basically my love language is (I don't know?) buying, making people stuff that they like in an Exaggerated amount. Not just once a week or every two weeks but like nearly everyday or everytime I see them. But I always to scared to give them that so I most of the time do it in secret or ask others to give it to them.