I try to give sincere compliments all year to as many men as possible after hearing how little they get complimented. I also try to thank my husband as often as I can. Other ladies need to do this as well.
I'm a woman and when I've said this to partners in very real, earnest way, they never believe me. And then when I'm not over-the-moon about some tchotchke as a gift, he's disappointed.
Same, and my wife and family get mad when I tell them “I don’t need anything this year”. Always end up getting me something when honestly a nice relaxing dinner together is all I need
Still cringing at that coupon book I made for my inappropriatelyolderthanme boyfriend when I was 19. Pretty sure Cosmo told me it would make me WILD and EXCITING.
In all seriousness, I’ve had multiple exes tell me they were going to do a drawing of us as a gift but they did something (or nothing) instead and it always left me feeling very sad. (Dated a lot of artists) I think a drawing is a really sweet, thoughtful and unique gift. If those drawings also could be traded for sexual favors, even better
Yes this. I don’t need anything. I have all of the games, miniatures, and weights I could ever reasonably want. I have no time to use them. The guilt free part is important as well
He gets plenty, we just had our second and our kids are accidentally very close in age, so we make sure to swap out often and give each other plenty of alone time
Thank you! I scrolled down all the top comments that were completely unhelpful. "A hug". "Socks." Like, come on guys! You're all as bad as my own boyfriend who put "Socks" and "red bulls" on his Christmas list. I know guys don't want that beard oil or sandalwood candle that Amazon is always pushing for Christmas and Father's Day, so what do guys want? This was the first truly helpful comment I've found, and I had to scroll down way to far to find it. Take my upvote, hopefully you'll get more so it will be higher up. It really deserves to be top rated comment.
I got you dawg, ill even throw in a firm back pat whilst we embrace, pat back three times for a harder embrace with a little lift off floor action going down. Say "Weeeeeee" whilst in the air and ill throw a little spin move in there
The danger with shopping for a hobby though is that the hobbyist likely knows much more about the field than you do, increasing the risk of getting "the wrong version". Now if he has been ogling that one rod in the store for 3 months on the other hand...
Ok serious question. My partner bought calvin klein and the quality is whack. It was ripped within one month. Does anybody know a high quality boxers brand?
My fiancée’s first OB visit for us to go as well as we hope. 37 (both of us) and our first after many, many months of trying. Fingers crossed, Reddit. You guys know before most of the people in my life.
Dude, I am 34 and always ask for Lego. Like it's to the point I'm buying it for my brother's hoping they get the hint. Lego and a bottle of whiskey. That's all I want.
There’s going to be at least 1 Lego set under the tree for each of us this year! Camaro for my brother, Delorian for the husband and I know there’s one for me in there too. Lego rocks 🤘
The greatest happiness is to vanquish your enemies, to chase them before you, to rob them of their wealth, to see those dear to them bathed in tears, to clasp to your bosom their wives and daughters. - Ghengis Khan
Typically I want like 1-2 semi-practical or hobby things I cant justify buying for myself, like a pottery wheel or a nice grill. I usually never want anything small cause I buy it on my own when I realize I need it, before Xmas, so if someone is giving me a $10-100 range gift I always prefer like a gift card to the grocery store tbh even though it’s boring as shit
This might be controversial among my fellow men, but getting clothes for Christmas can actually be great. I'm not talking about your grandma buying you socks from the dollar store, or your aunt getting you an ill-fitting shirt in a style that has nothing to do with your tastes. I'm talking about getting a thoughtful piece of clothing from your significant other, where they can say "I saw this and thought of you, because it complements your [insert body part/personality/style]." A piece of clothing that demonstrates that your partner thinks about, understands, and cares about you. A piece of clothing that you wear with pride that boosts your confidence every time you put it on.
Speaking for myself, only, I do not need presents. I would like presence, though. Quality time together. My partner is not much into the Christmas spirit (and I can't blame her), so I'm not going to make any deal out of it this year.
Some days to collect myself between the end of work and Christmas eve. To recover from the 'get it done by Xmas' push, and the unique stresses of family. No presents for anyone who isn't a child too, to lessen that pressure.
I don't know but I usually make gifts for my friends who are men and they usually enjoy it. Like a bottle of home made chili oil, or a home made candle made from a mold I made (what do you mean you don't like your traffic cone candle???), this year I've gotten into home coffee roasting, so my friends are getting freshly roasted coffee in some sort of nice container and probably a refill on their chili oil.
My wife says I need a new wallet. Not sure why though as the one I have had for over 10yrs is fine, only have to replace the rubber band that holds it together one a year.
I want professional kitchen knives and a set of whetstones. Not the stupid sets that come in a wooden block. The kind in a roll up pouch. I worked in kitchens for years and got very used to having the sharpest knives.
Dad would like nothing better than to be able to set something down and, a week later, find it exactly where he left it instead of moved around three times by different people and now nobody knows where they saw it last.
/uj Everyone is different. A good option for most people is something they’ve mentioned that they wouldn’t buy for themselves. If they’ve mentioned anything giving them issues you could look into items that can resolve it. A good tool is nice.
You got a lot of jokes and unhelpful recommendations so I’ll try and give you something specific. A while back I bought a new belt at the recommendation of a friend. It’s a company called groove life and they make these cool belts that have a magnetic clasp at the front. It is so damn convenient and you can micro adjust to get the perfect fit. They are pretty expensive at around $50 but they have a bogo deal going right now. I dropped enough hints I expect to get 2 more this Xmas from my wife or in-laws. Can’t recommend highly enough.
A family get together, with lots of good food! Nothing better than spending time with the family, and the joy of seeing them open presents that have been chosen with thought. Would be even better if we could have all of those family members who are no longer with us join for the day...
Something for one of my hobbies, something I enjoy when I have free time. This year it's quality whiskey glasses/decanter, quality car wash kit, or leather chair repair kit.
My wife is horrible at surprising me with gifts. It's pretty much a game at this point. She gives the most vague clues wanting me to guess. I always get pretty close on the guesses. This year I nailed every one of them so far. She gave me one tonight actually. She got me a sweet new hunting backpack. Two weeks ago was an awesome new helmet. I'm pretty sure next week is a new hunting blind....lmfao. It's all exactly what I wanted!
I really like getting neat shaving supplies. My wife gave me a stand that holds my razor and a shaving brush, and daughter got me this awesome shaving cream in a tub to use with the brush. Cologne and/or after shave also.
We don't know yet. The Council of All Men Everywhere doesn't release the wish list until December 1st.
I just received my meeting request in the mail.
FUCK, that's tomorrow and I haven't looked over last meeting's minutes.
It's Dec 1 in NZ where I am.
I’d they did blowjobs would likely be high on the list for many.
Me who lives in Australia (already the 1st here): The list is in, all we want is a hug and to be told we're worthy. Also, lots and lots of sex.
Last time I attended the CAME conference was when they taught me to do the sad dog face for when I’ve been naughty. Worth every penny
My husband is usually all about getting a Blowjob or some butt stuff lol… he don’t care about material things… just give him the booty!
Only one thing, and it's disgusting.
Being cuddled and told it's okay?
Brussels sprouts?
If it's disgusting, you should ask her to wash it.
It's just anal. People need to relax.
The unconditional love and support of a partner?
Compliments affection and appreciation.
I try to give sincere compliments all year to as many men as possible after hearing how little they get complimented. I also try to thank my husband as often as I can. Other ladies need to do this as well.
I honestly never want anything for Christmas, birthdays, etc. Just acknowledge the day and spend time together.
I'm a woman and when I've said this to partners in very real, earnest way, they never believe me. And then when I'm not over-the-moon about some tchotchke as a gift, he's disappointed.
Same, and my wife and family get mad when I tell them “I don’t need anything this year”. Always end up getting me something when honestly a nice relaxing dinner together is all I need
That's so wholesome and I love it
I’m the same way.
A peaceful weekend and the sensation of feeling like I belong. To feel wanted.
Does that come in a Costco multi-pack by chance?
This man is right. 😅😢
…so that’s a “no” on the whiskey stones?
My husband told me he just wants happiness. Where do I buy that?
A hand-drawn, personalized, made with love, illustrated coupon book of chores you'll take off his plate or favors you'll--
Still cringing at that coupon book I made for my inappropriatelyolderthanme boyfriend when I was 19. Pretty sure Cosmo told me it would make me WILD and EXCITING.
My husband said you’re not wrong
In all seriousness, I’ve had multiple exes tell me they were going to do a drawing of us as a gift but they did something (or nothing) instead and it always left me feeling very sad. (Dated a lot of artists) I think a drawing is a really sweet, thoughtful and unique gift. If those drawings also could be traded for sexual favors, even better
Guilt-free, uninterrupted free time. Coming from a father of a 1 year old
Yes this. I don’t need anything. I have all of the games, miniatures, and weights I could ever reasonably want. I have no time to use them. The guilt free part is important as well
He gets plenty, we just had our second and our kids are accidentally very close in age, so we make sure to swap out often and give each other plenty of alone time
These replies are annoying.
Thank you! I scrolled down all the top comments that were completely unhelpful. "A hug". "Socks." Like, come on guys! You're all as bad as my own boyfriend who put "Socks" and "red bulls" on his Christmas list. I know guys don't want that beard oil or sandalwood candle that Amazon is always pushing for Christmas and Father's Day, so what do guys want? This was the first truly helpful comment I've found, and I had to scroll down way to far to find it. Take my upvote, hopefully you'll get more so it will be higher up. It really deserves to be top rated comment.
Pictures of Spider-Man!!!!
"Does anybody care about what I want?"
Spider-Man is posing for the camera...
Spider-men
Are we live? Good. Did you plug the book? No? You're fired! Get out!!
Can I get Christmas in advance?
Found J. Jonah Jameson.
As I’m older, I appreciate a nice pair of socks more than I ever did
I'm 25 and really appreciate a nice pair of wool socks. Does this mean I'm old?
I recommend Darn Tough socks. I wish I found them when I was active military. Best socks I have ever used and they have a set for every occasion.
A fucking hug.
Me too, man… me too
Send you a bear hug right now. ✅️ 🫂
Are you okay?
::virtual hug::
(((((((hugs)))))))
I got you dawg, ill even throw in a firm back pat whilst we embrace, pat back three times for a harder embrace with a little lift off floor action going down. Say "Weeeeeee" whilst in the air and ill throw a little spin move in there
Powertools, a new gaming console/pc, fishing rod(or whatever his hobby is).
Two or three 10mm socket, don't know were they go but I could use some
The danger with shopping for a hobby though is that the hobbyist likely knows much more about the field than you do, increasing the risk of getting "the wrong version". Now if he has been ogling that one rod in the store for 3 months on the other hand...
Oh God just make sure you get the right colored power tools!! They even have to be the correct shade of red.
Socks and boxers baby
He does need new ones
Everyone hates this when you're young but we all know that changes.
Ok serious question. My partner bought calvin klein and the quality is whack. It was ripped within one month. Does anybody know a high quality boxers brand?
A vacation
Shit I want one too, unfortunately that’s not currently possible since we just had our second baby and he’s about to leave for school for 3 months lol
I just want someone to comfort me and tell me that I’m doing my best and that it’s ok. Just once
This, but also magically get me to actually believe they're right and won't change their mind tomorrow.
It is okay. Your best is more than okay.
The voices to stop
My tinnitus has at least lowered the volume of the voices
A Porsche should do the trick.
That’s not in the budget yet, I’ll work on it
I’ve always asked for an Aston Martin, but I’d take a Porsche as well
911 or I dont want it
My fiancée’s first OB visit for us to go as well as we hope. 37 (both of us) and our first after many, many months of trying. Fingers crossed, Reddit. You guys know before most of the people in my life.
All the good wishes in the world for you guys!
All the scare numbers they give you sound worse than they are.
Good quality socks. And power tools
Why not good quality tools and power socks?
My wife isnt allowed to buy me tools
Lego
Dude, I am 34 and always ask for Lego. Like it's to the point I'm buying it for my brother's hoping they get the hint. Lego and a bottle of whiskey. That's all I want.
I was considering this for my partner. One of the really big sets. I think he'd love it, but I'm second guessing.
There’s going to be at least 1 Lego set under the tree for each of us this year! Camaro for my brother, Delorian for the husband and I know there’s one for me in there too. Lego rocks 🤘
Came to say this.
Am woman, this is what I want too 😥
I'd like a shop vac. I got a shitload of cobwebs in my basement and my son and I are too creeped out to touch them. A shop vac is my solution. 😂
To crush our enemies, see them driven before us, and hear the lamentation of their women.
It's been a long time since I've heard someone speak of Conan...puffs on pipe...a long time indeed.
The greatest happiness is to vanquish your enemies, to chase them before you, to rob them of their wealth, to see those dear to them bathed in tears, to clasp to your bosom their wives and daughters. - Ghengis Khan
This is a high class comment and I appreciate it.
Metal Detector. Every man secretly wants one.
I secretly want one lol
Sword
I was gonna go with "A peaceful weekend and the sensation of feeling like I belong. To feel wanted." but now that you mention it yeah I want a sword.
I got my brother a sword one year. Can confirm was a big hit. Apologized to his wife.
Typically I want like 1-2 semi-practical or hobby things I cant justify buying for myself, like a pottery wheel or a nice grill. I usually never want anything small cause I buy it on my own when I realize I need it, before Xmas, so if someone is giving me a $10-100 range gift I always prefer like a gift card to the grocery store tbh even though it’s boring as shit
This. I don't want my family to spend much on me, and the larger stuff for my hobbies I'll buy myself.
As a man I'm looking at this list to inform me what I should want. I can never think of anything when people ask.
I'm a simple man
My grandad got whiskey stones for Christmas last year. We had to take him to the ER before he was able to pass them
Merino wool socks. You’ll never buy another pair.
This might be controversial among my fellow men, but getting clothes for Christmas can actually be great. I'm not talking about your grandma buying you socks from the dollar store, or your aunt getting you an ill-fitting shirt in a style that has nothing to do with your tastes. I'm talking about getting a thoughtful piece of clothing from your significant other, where they can say "I saw this and thought of you, because it complements your [insert body part/personality/style]." A piece of clothing that demonstrates that your partner thinks about, understands, and cares about you. A piece of clothing that you wear with pride that boosts your confidence every time you put it on.
A real light saber.
I’ve gotten my bf 2 high quality sabers, both from Darkwolf Saber, and he’s been extremely happy with them.
This is the right answer. A fake one will do in a pinch though. Check out
An actual healthy loving, peaceful relationship. None of the drama shit none of the games, just peace and not having to be constantly stressed.
Sounds like you should wish for a new relationship this year.
Right there with you, something about being able to come home to something other then a battlefield sounds incredible
Socks, but with pictures of our dog on it.
How about if the socks had pictures of the dog wearing the socks?
Head
Pretty awkward for grandma to watch you open
I checked this thread for gift ideas for my dad.
At least you’re honest
We're simple creatures. A blowie and dinner is good enough.
Honestly you can't go wrong with head. My wife and I are very sexually active but head is always good.
Good, enthusiastic head.
Speaking for myself, only, I do not need presents. I would like presence, though. Quality time together. My partner is not much into the Christmas spirit (and I can't blame her), so I'm not going to make any deal out of it this year.
I never want anything for Christmas. I love buying presents, though.
Cuddles
Naked. They just want naked. (based on 39 years with my husband)
Yes, naked lol. My husband of 23 years would agree with you
Every time my wife takes her shirt off, I stare. It’s been 10 years.
Fuck lingerie. I love naked.
I want a day where I can rest my head on [my partners] lap and have my hair messed with all day
I want hair so it can be messed with.
True classic T Shirts
I would also like to include good quality flashlights. This is my go to Christmas gift for men
So far the most helpful response on here!
Speaking for myself. To see my gf for the first time in months (long distance)
Mikwaukee tools
I want about 3.50
Damn it monster! Get off my lawn! I ain’t given you no tree fiddy!
To not have to buy shit for anyone.
... Dad?
He doesn’t have to, I took care of everything for him.
Emotional validation. Or maybe some collectables like pop figures or something like that
Weird. My wife just asked me this question five minutes ago and I had no idea.
I asked mine earlier tonight and he just shrugged so I figured this was the best way to make a list lol
A Hippopotamus. Only a hippopotamus will do.
To be left the fuck alone.
That video game he keeps talking about
He’s a punk and already bought it! That was at the top of my list and I found out he got the jump on me!
Nice comfy sweatpants
Hmmm…. Lots of socks listed.
The new Lego Star Wars AT-TE
I just dropped $150 on this for my bf
For me I would enjoy having another bottle of Giorgio Armani Absolu
To feel appreciated and loved
Lego
I’m probably just speaking for myself but lego
I know at least three other grown men who also want Legos.
Beef jerky and hot wings.
I would never asked anyone give me anything at New Year. But I would love to get a hoodie or sweater, or maybe thermos for coffee or RTX 3060ti😄
Some days to collect myself between the end of work and Christmas eve. To recover from the 'get it done by Xmas' push, and the unique stresses of family. No presents for anyone who isn't a child too, to lessen that pressure.
A Steam Deck
I don't know but I usually make gifts for my friends who are men and they usually enjoy it. Like a bottle of home made chili oil, or a home made candle made from a mold I made (what do you mean you don't like your traffic cone candle???), this year I've gotten into home coffee roasting, so my friends are getting freshly roasted coffee in some sort of nice container and probably a refill on their chili oil.
To be left alone but not by ourselves.
My wife says I need a new wallet. Not sure why though as the one I have had for over 10yrs is fine, only have to replace the rubber band that holds it together one a year.
I want professional kitchen knives and a set of whetstones. Not the stupid sets that come in a wooden block. The kind in a roll up pouch. I worked in kitchens for years and got very used to having the sharpest knives.
Peace and fucking quiet.
I mean I’d take a good long hug
Turn off the goddamn light when you leave the room! As a bonus, don’t just stand there with the fridge door open, get what you want or close the door.
Dad would like nothing better than to be able to set something down and, a week later, find it exactly where he left it instead of moved around three times by different people and now nobody knows where they saw it last.
A bomb ass leather man
I’m afraid. Is that a man made out of ass leather? Or did you mean a bomb-ass leatherman?
/uj Everyone is different. A good option for most people is something they’ve mentioned that they wouldn’t buy for themselves. If they’ve mentioned anything giving them issues you could look into items that can resolve it. A good tool is nice.
A steam deck is what I wanted this year 😂
A day with my girlfriend. Just the 2 of us doing nothing.
Seems like they don't want the burden of buying gifts for everyone in their life.
You got a lot of jokes and unhelpful recommendations so I’ll try and give you something specific. A while back I bought a new belt at the recommendation of a friend. It’s a company called groove life and they make these cool belts that have a magnetic clasp at the front. It is so damn convenient and you can micro adjust to get the perfect fit. They are pretty expensive at around $50 but they have a bogo deal going right now. I dropped enough hints I expect to get 2 more this Xmas from my wife or in-laws. Can’t recommend highly enough.
Thank you!! He actually does need a new belt because his favorite one broke recently!
bacon
plenty of men in the world and im pretty sure we want different things
Fire Meat Guns Women Cars
Ron Swanson has entered the chat.
I personally want more airsoft stuff this christmas. Or maybe a nice knife.
A new flannel shirt, leather belt, some Knipex pliers. Maybe some new socks. Or t-shirts.
I don’t know and now my partner is asking…Please help me lol…
spending time with someone you actually enjoy having around? Best gift there is tbh.
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A family get together, with lots of good food! Nothing better than spending time with the family, and the joy of seeing them open presents that have been chosen with thought. Would be even better if we could have all of those family members who are no longer with us join for the day...
Linen boxers, gold toe socks, and plain black tee shirts
I want something that shows you know me or were thinking about me.
I want to be worth of someone's time.
I have to work on a list all year round for my husband. I listen in on little things he mentions throughout the year and write them down.
An official Red Ryder, carbine action, 200-shot, range model air rifle, with a compass in the stock and this thing that tells time.
Stuff. Some things.
Read this in Rick Grimes voice!!
Legos 😳
Tools
If you could only get one new tool which one would be at the top of the list? He does need some new ones, but I know nothing about tools
As I've said multiple times to everyone asking.
Something for one of my hobbies, something I enjoy when I have free time. This year it's quality whiskey glasses/decanter, quality car wash kit, or leather chair repair kit.
My wife is horrible at surprising me with gifts. It's pretty much a game at this point. She gives the most vague clues wanting me to guess. I always get pretty close on the guesses. This year I nailed every one of them so far. She gave me one tonight actually. She got me a sweet new hunting backpack. Two weeks ago was an awesome new helmet. I'm pretty sure next week is a new hunting blind....lmfao. It's all exactly what I wanted!
No family drama at Christmas.
Nothing.
Graphic tee-shirt, displaying something of our interests...no really you CANNOT go wrong here.
I want a soldering station.
My debt wiped out
I really like getting neat shaving supplies. My wife gave me a stand that holds my razor and a shaving brush, and daughter got me this awesome shaving cream in a tub to use with the brush. Cologne and/or after shave also.
To not feel pressure to buy trinkets for everyone we know.