You are not overreacting. He LIED to you for the purpose of IGNORING YOUR BOUNDARIES. You told him you didn’t want him talking to exes then he 1) did it anyway, 2) lied about who he was talking to.
I said I didn’t want him talking about exes because he was doing it often enough that I was feeling very uncomfortable. I don’t want him talking to exes, but I never specifically expressed that and I guess I can’t force who he can and can’t talk to because he’s his own person. He didn’t lie about who he was talking to, he just left out information.
Rookie. You're supposed to go your car with the intention of going to the hotel. You throw some playful kisses around on the way to the car, then make a move as you're getting ready to start the car. Either it happens or she says something like "wait til the hotel" and then you go to the hotel. That way, you have the opportunity to possibly get the car sex you wanted, but the certainty of having sex regardless of that possibility. Bonus possibility: you have car sex, go back to the reception together happy, and then go to a hotel when it's over and have sex again.
Ah, my bad. That post should be pinned. If he had no other way to get his bike out after work then that makes sense. From the video it just looked like he went in the middle of a mob for no reason.
Anecdotal: I struggle to lose weight when I'm stressed. I wasn't losing despite being in a deficit, got my cortisol checked, and it was too high. I worked on relaxing and my best months this year were the months I was the happiest. I've been fairly consistent with my calories all year. Get a doctors opinion to learn more about yourself.
This! It may be hormonal/medical or you’re getting calories somewhere unknown. Some drinks, supplements, mints, etc. have more calories than you think.
Hey, OP. You’re having a hard to with the pregnancy too. A lot of people don’t talk/care about how hard it is for the father who’s actually there and trying to be present. People mention how bad the pregnancy hormones are and how “crazy” their wives can get, but it’s different when you’re actually experiencing it. Everyone’s experiences different and this is you and your wife’s experience. She is cold, mean, and horrible during this pregnancy. Was she like that before the pregnancy? No? Then you know it’s just the hormones.
No, not everyone has baggage. It wasn't his ego that was damaged, it was his understanding of their marriage. It's a farce. She married him out of a form of convenience, not love.
Love how you're exemplifying why OPs wife's line of thinking is wrong, this is all his life will always be. It's always be perfect (aka read his wife's mind) or his wife is right in her assessment that he is just like everyone else.
NTA. Dude, she saw that idea on TikTok. The internet is trying to convince women that all men are using weaponized incompetence to break down their partners at every turn.
You’re supposed to if there is any light touching your skin but I’m sure few people actually do. I do sometimes because my bedroom has a lot of natural light.
NTA. Maybe he could volunteer somewhere to see how it actually is. He’s envisioning caring for “his mother” but she may change greatly due to her condition. How will that change things. Also, people with dementia need constant monitoring and you both have jobs most likely.
Do what George from Seinfeld did. Whatever your intuition says- do the opposite. Because if nothing you’re doing is working. The opposite is a good start.
YTA. It’s hard to be around rich people sometimes when you grew up having to struggle but YOU are the one being spoiled now. She married you, you have a rich father in law. As long as you treat her right, you two never have to worry about anything. I know you love her and want to provide for her but do it some other way. At this point you are complaining about BLESSINGS.
OP, she’s still 16. You are still legally responsible for your daughter. You ARE on the hook for two more years. You didn’t put her on birth control although you knew she was dating a boy for a year? Come on that was an oversight in your part. She’s a kid.
He broke your bones.
You are not overreacting. He LIED to you for the purpose of IGNORING YOUR BOUNDARIES. You told him you didn’t want him talking to exes then he 1) did it anyway, 2) lied about who he was talking to.
I said I didn’t want him talking about exes because he was doing it often enough that I was feeling very uncomfortable. I don’t want him talking to exes, but I never specifically expressed that and I guess I can’t force who he can and can’t talk to because he’s his own person. He didn’t lie about who he was talking to, he just left out information.
He lied by omission:
Rookie. You're supposed to go your car with the intention of going to the hotel. You throw some playful kisses around on the way to the car, then make a move as you're getting ready to start the car. Either it happens or she says something like "wait til the hotel" and then you go to the hotel. That way, you have the opportunity to possibly get the car sex you wanted, but the certainty of having sex regardless of that possibility. Bonus possibility: you have car sex, go back to the reception together happy, and then go to a hotel when it's over and have sex again.
Daaamn. This guy FUCKS.
Monk psych crossover
That would be amazing. 🤩 That would likely become my holy grail comfort TV show.
That guy is actually pretty scary, imo.
No. 3 says to “damp” your hair, not wash. You just wet your hair before putting it on.
Olaplex, the company, specifically says to wash your hair first if you use products on your hair. It's on their website.
Oh? Where? I just looked. No.3 is a before washing treatment. From the website:
The mob was in front of his workplace
Ah, my bad. That post should be pinned. If he had no other way to get his bike out after work then that makes sense. From the video it just looked like he went in the middle of a mob for no reason.
Even if he did, they dont get to just assault the guy. The fuck?
It is totally wrong for them to assault him but it’s not unexpected! Mobs are dangerous as fuck yet a lot of people walk through to antagonize them.
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Don’t let your dreams be dreams.😂
Damn, Team Purple had no grit.
Yo them hospital non slip socks thoo
Grippy socks tell the whole tale.
No purpose, it’s just more expensive for no reason. Just pay your parents the cost of your line.
NTA. Are you gonna stand on business or what? She clowned at your own wedding.
Anecdotal: I struggle to lose weight when I'm stressed. I wasn't losing despite being in a deficit, got my cortisol checked, and it was too high. I worked on relaxing and my best months this year were the months I was the happiest. I've been fairly consistent with my calories all year. Get a doctors opinion to learn more about yourself.
This! It may be hormonal/medical or you’re getting calories somewhere unknown. Some drinks, supplements, mints, etc. have more calories than you think.
No, not $200 dollars. It’s shoulder length smedium braids.
Hey, OP. You’re having a hard to with the pregnancy too. A lot of people don’t talk/care about how hard it is for the father who’s actually there and trying to be present. People mention how bad the pregnancy hormones are and how “crazy” their wives can get, but it’s different when you’re actually experiencing it. Everyone’s experiences different and this is you and your wife’s experience. She is cold, mean, and horrible during this pregnancy. Was she like that before the pregnancy? No? Then you know it’s just the hormones.
No, not everyone has baggage. It wasn't his ego that was damaged, it was his understanding of their marriage. It's a farce. She married him out of a form of convenience, not love.
I typed “almost everyone.”
Love how you're exemplifying why OPs wife's line of thinking is wrong, this is all his life will always be. It's always be perfect (aka read his wife's mind) or his wife is right in her assessment that he is just like everyone else.
Her line of thinking is generally incorrect but if OP leaves her, it will re-enforce her false beliefs.
NTA. Dude, she saw that idea on TikTok. The internet is trying to convince women that all men are using weaponized incompetence to break down their partners at every turn.
OP, no. Never speak to this person again.
You’re supposed to if there is any light touching your skin but I’m sure few people actually do. I do sometimes because my bedroom has a lot of natural light.
NTA. Maybe he could volunteer somewhere to see how it actually is. He’s envisioning caring for “his mother” but she may change greatly due to her condition. How will that change things. Also, people with dementia need constant monitoring and you both have jobs most likely.
Coffee and whiskey
Do what George from Seinfeld did. Whatever your intuition says- do the opposite. Because if nothing you’re doing is working. The opposite is a good start.
This! Especially if you’re a liiiitle bit nervous to do it.
YTA. It’s hard to be around rich people sometimes when you grew up having to struggle but YOU are the one being spoiled now. She married you, you have a rich father in law. As long as you treat her right, you two never have to worry about anything. I know you love her and want to provide for her but do it some other way. At this point you are complaining about BLESSINGS.
OP, she’s still 16. You are still legally responsible for your daughter. You ARE on the hook for two more years. You didn’t put her on birth control although you knew she was dating a boy for a year? Come on that was an oversight in your part. She’s a kid.
Ignore him, OP. Tell the nurses the baby’s full name when you get there, if you’re able. Men drop out of children’s lives every hour on the hour.