what "female duties" have you been asked in the workplace even through it wasn't your job?
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Help me feel better about my current hyperfixation by telling me about yours
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What word or phrase makes you feel great every time you hear it or read it?
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Blink twice if you need help...
This is a Daddy in disguise
Hahahahahaha
Could have written this myself.
I have a YouTube workout video on (volume silenced) and a show Iāve seen about 10x already (volume up). I can only do abt 15 of Pilates before Iām totally bored, but at least Iām distracted and entertained.
Also, realistic expectations that I can only do this 3x a week. And lots of walking otherwise.
How to be consistent in my relationship with myself and with others. This means trial and error on setting boundaries and communicating what I feel and what I need. Itās a process lol
Scanning.
Never start smoking pot. It created so much apathy. I wish I had dealt with my emotions earlier on, instead of numbing myself.
My newest fixation is figuring out my Halloween costume. I just recently started dating someone and they invited me to do Halloween with their friends. It will be my first time meeting their friends, so of course my costume has to be p e r f e c t. This is strange for me because I never cared about Halloween, and now Iām currently obsessing over every aspect of this costume.
Time....I've been obsessed with my inability to manage time. There are 24 hours in a day, I feel like I HAVE 48 hours....but then it flies by like it is only 5 hours a day. It sucks because mentally I want to be more productive. But I'd rather crochet, or cook a late dinner.
I feel seen.
Recommend journaling, followed by watching Billy on the Street, and then going to bed with an ASMR video on YouTube
My existence
Popcorn
Keeping a journal.
Smoking weed was why my confidence was low. It lead to intense apathy. Iām actually bubbly.
Learning to (finally) trust my gut.
Denying a salaried job when I had an internship. Got a different job later that was a better career.
The feeling after. Consistency. Results. In that order.
Not much. At 28 I got hips and more solid confidence.
Being out of town so often and rarely at my nyc apt :(
Wellbutrin >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> SSRI.
Ohhhhh, so this is why I couldnāt cry after a death in the family. Got off anti depressants and it hit me two months later. HARD
Your gut knows. Listen to that little voice. Even when itās hard.
Packing my fiancƩs lunch in the morning, putting wildflowers he brings home on the mantel with all my other trinkets (he is a farmer), baking, serving petit fours, hosting dinner parties, soaking in a bubble bath in a candlelit bathroom with a glass of wine...
The last oneāSent. Hosting dinner parties swoon
Straightening my hair and putting on makeup, or well eyeshadow. Not the most feminine, wardrobe wise, but I think it's the little things that still make me feminine.
Itās these little things. Special feminine touch āØ
You are special.
Happier than I have been in my 28 years of living. Even though I donāt have parents and my sibling is a piece of crap, I am happy that I am resilient. I am starting to trust myself and I have pushed the negative thoughts from the people I used to hold dear in my life. I am gaining confidence. I am stepping into my power and I have dreams again. I appreciate myself and want to keep myself safe for once. The progress makes me happy. But I just strive for peace and consistency.
š„ŗthis is me. Shivers that I found this description.