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  1. Forget about the question of AITA. I want to know why the hell are you even WITH him?!?

  2. But you SHOULD have made the fake entry about something else. ANYTHING else. You can't be so ignorant as to not know how insecure women are about their bodies. She will always remember what you wrote, and ALWAYS doubt her attractiveness to you. You planted that in her mind, and it will always be there. Why couldn't you say something like you lost your job and haven't told your wife yet? And don't say you were testing to see if she's been reading your entries. You suspected! You were CONFIRMING! And you attacked a woman's biggest vulnerability. If tables were turned (oh, you'd never, I know...but just suppose) And her fake entry is about your inability to really satisfy her in bed. Totally fake..but no matter how much she tells you it's not true. You'll always wonder. YTA

  3. What a toxic work environment! Even the women thought she was overreacting!

  4. You are only the AH if you stay with this jerk. So many red flags...I thought it was a chinese military parade! He is using you, manipulating you and gaslighting you. (My guess he's a "divorcé" because his ex kicked his ass to the curb) RUN, run like the wind!

  5. I think stepmom wanted the necklace, was told no and telling the son is payback.

  6. Or stepmom is jealous of the daughter...and doesn't want HER to have the necklace.

  7. Why is the original post banned? From the responses, it looked like a pretty straightforward post. Is reddit afraid of outing this creep?

  8. You're not the AH, but i don't think your wife is the AH perse, either. Seems like she's trying to level the playing field for her daughter. If YOU would've planned something nice to do with her WHILE your son was at Disneyland, this situation would not have developed. You didn't do anything with your daughter. BUT, when your wife took daughter on a special roadtrip to help offset the imbalance... you took your son on another trip as well. Life isn't fair, not everyone had the same opportunities...but it definitely seems like YOU compensate your son when he's missing out. So instead of looking at your wife as preferring one child over the other, look at yourself. And I'm not even talking about the latest proposed holiday. Just... what you did for your son when the daughter had a roadtrip. And what you DID NOT do for your daughter when your son had the Disney trip.

  9. Nowhere in the post does OP mention any road trips, I think you read a comment and confused it with the post. The only trips that happened were Disneyland for the son, and the holiday with BIL for the whole family.

  10. I don't think you're the AH. I think that title actually goes to your father not the woman he married. Your father SHOULD have been the one that provided transportation when it was your time with him. YOUR father is the one cancelling the visits. Don't assume the wife is to blame because your father failed you (and continues to). So, maybe give her the benefit of the doubt. You said that she's done nice things for you in the past. Now, judge her for her, herself. Take your father's failures and shortcomings out. Just her.

  11. Yes, I would pay someone to socialize with my cat (and I assume feed/water him) while I'm away. The amount would depend on time, with travel time being factored in. If it's a neighbor..$10/30minutes.

  12. That's a 2. The guest put a line through it and then put a 4 for the number of attendees.

  13. Not the AH. What your brother says to these ladies is NOT creepy, it's downright threatening. When he kidnaps and rapes ..he will point out these rejections. He is not misunderstood, we understand him all too well!

  14. How could you agree with his dictate about your son? He's a minor and you are financially responsible for his basic needs. You're not the AH for refusing to foot your fiance's restaurant bill. Good god woman! Why are you still referring to him as fiance/boyfriend?? RUN.

  15. You're the AH! So you don't want to go because it's Sunday. Good for you, don't go. Why are you trying to enlist others into boycotting the wedding?! Like your niece said... who the eff are you..

  16. Why should it matter to ANYONE that your daughter sleeps with a stuffed animal? Having things that bring comfort is ageless. Some people find comfort/peace with religion..according to your brother, people of a certain age should not be wearing crucifixes? Your brother is very much the ignorant AH.

  17. You are many kinds of AH. And not worth the effort to list.

  18. Yeah, you're the AH. You were asked to keep an eye on the baby. Not feed it, bath it or change it! It's no different than asking a person to keep an eye on your drink while you go to the bathroom. Just make sure nothing happens to it.

  19. Can't they actually be charged with something? Like being accessories? They enabled the guy to continue..the blood of those poor children is on their hands.

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