People who had traumatic childhoods, what's something you do as an adult that you hadn't realised was a direct result of the trauma? [Serious] [NSFW]
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i went a full day without drinking alcohol
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FELLOW FOXY PRIDE!!!!
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homie he's smokin a blunt he is very high lol
Is this a shitpost š ( btw the arts Amazing though and happy pride month! )
the foxy being high part is! i made it for 4/20 back in april and it's been my icon on my discord since then and since im trans i made a pride variant for myself to celebrate
I didn't say that it was a magical switch or it was easy. Why are you suddenly being a jackass?
i apologize i just assumed you were being rude. and swing just chill out came off as i could just instantly stop doing it
Good luck...
some subreddits are very cruel so i always am on edge. especially when it comes to neurodivergency
my trauma response to setting boundaries. as a child i wasnāt allowed to have any sort of boundary and if i tried it was just anger and ignorance of my parents
hey i go through the same thing fairly often and itās taken years of learning and communication. iām an artist and several of my original characters were me expressing my alters before i knew it. not to mention i āsplitā my main characters into different personalities of myself to understand myself better before i knew i was a system.
If this is too personal, you& donāt have to respond but is Altair by chance a fictive from Altair im Sternenland?
they are not the only introjects listed is the garden subsystem the rest donāt front enough to donāt want to be public
oh, valid!! Are they an Omori introject? (if you're willing to say, if not that's alright, we just also have many Omori fictives)
yeah they are, one is headspace basil, one is faraway town basil and one is black space basil.
Yeah I agree. my biggest issue with using Picrews is you can't really change the proportions of the character - and a lot of us have different body types and proportions
adding to the drawing thing you can find free to use bases as well also with different proportions like you were wanting. luckily weāre artists so all of us can just draw ourselves
Yeah that's also an option. I envy the ability to do art. I've tried to learn but it caused me so much stress and I got discouraged so quickly every time :/
my roommate goes through a similar struggle so iāve done some art and ref sheets of their alters as well.
we have bpd and have a lot of alter duos that formed from splitting
anymore than 3 people fronting is exhausting for us. 3 is functional we can do 5 but only if itās all the hosts together since they all kinda function really well together.
Maybe you are elderly? IBS can happen for elderly but if you are young itās completely BS
lmao youāre kidding right? my asshole begs to differ. itās more common in elderly people but people can still have ibs and be young
I'm laughing my ass off that someone that has IBS and landed a job in the bakery. LMAO
it didnāt start acting up so badly until the harassment got so bad that my stress was at max every day so it was almost always happening. š„²š„²š„²
i struggle with this too. one of my system friends has recommended the term polyfragmented and we are happy with this label
Absolutely! Itās also important to call such people out on their bad behaviours, to show them, that such views are not wanted in this community. I hope they can adapt another view on this matter and hopefully grow up to be a more inclusive and better person. After all, we non-binary folks just want to be accepted and included and thatās not a big request š
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thank you guys for all the nice comments! iām gonna continue limiting myself and try to slowly make it a special occasion kind of thing!
Hey, I had to remove this post. I'm sorry about your experiences with self harm Twitter. We try to avoid discussions of it so that other users don't go check it out bc of curiosity and get sucked into it. Stay safe!
thatās fair. i wanted to try to share my experience to deter people as well
I wanted to name him the one who watches but it didnāt fit so I named him āthe watcherā in greek
if youāve got a microwave they have sausage bites over by meat dept. at least in my store. and then those just crack an egg things