I'm sure the pharmacy can notate your account to only release prescriptions to you with your ID only. Next, this lady isn't your friend. She set this up to source her addiction.
Things op describing is heavy in your face microagression via dog whistling. When describe it sounds harmless or crazy. Also not offensive to the unintended ear. I get what OP is saying cause I myself witness all of these things with my family and more. Sundown towns, the demeanor of people, daily harmless things being used to create a racially hostile environment. These are thing you can only understand if you experience first hand not read about it.
My ex husband’s friend from childhood ask him to donate. I straight up said no. I explained beyond child support how complicated things could get because there will be a whole person and one day this person will seek their father. I also explained that I’m not okay with the situation period. It’s way more complicated than just giving your sperm. Emotions will be involved. He will forever be attached to the mother and it will complicate our relationship not to mention how he will feel about things in the future. While we are dealing with our marriage our children and our daily challenges this will add one more challenge (and not a simple one) to our lives. There is no way he would have been not want to be involved once the child was born. What if he feels attached to the baby but she didn’t feel that way. It’s a convoluted topic that none of us were remotely ready for. He ended up not doing it. You are allowed to say I don’t want this. This isn’t the time to be apologetic about it. This decision affects both of you in the long term. I mean a whole person will be created. This is not like giving money to someone. Child support is the least of you guys’ worries.
Ugh. Just yesterday I had a guy get in his feelings because I said I was married but was t wearing a ring. My marital status didn’t change because I didn’t have a ring on that minute.
Yep I was married for 20 years and neither one of us wore a ring or even owned one. A ring doesn’t make me married a marriage does. We both knew we were married and carried ourselves accordingly. Never had issues. I had men ask me if I was happily married. Men don’t care. And I totally don’t want men to leave me alone because they respect another man. They need to leave me alone cause I said no. It’s demeaning when a man leaves you alone only after you tell them you are “spoken for”.
This is why we women need to share and not listen to those people telling us to keep miscarriages, pregnancies (the first 3 months in case of a miscarriage), ectopic pregnancy, inability to get pregnant while actively trying to ourselves. Telling us it’s a private matter. It’s extremely isolating. It encourages other women to share their stories. It creates a support system. I hate those people who thinks it’s impolite to share these stories. No it’s extremely isolating and painful to hide. Women deserve better support. It creates a community. Brings people together. Joy multiples when you share pains and sadness divides. Never forget that.
He's been begging me to "really sit" on his face since before I even started losing weight. One of these days I'm going to surprise him and do it. (I currently just hover.)
I was unsure too my men loves it when I do it and if they need to breathe they can shove you which is also hot. Look at my post history find the post about me asking. You will change your perspective about face sitting vs hovering. Life changing experience 😂
Before you read post I want to tell you I was a person who was extremely skinny like 90-115lbs even though I have 3 kids. Due to health and some medications I gained so much weight. At some point I was 200lbs. Right now I’m like 185lbs. So as you read
While she is looking for a new pain dr she needs to go to the er for them to treat her for the withdrawal. Before they discharge her ask them to prescribe butrans patch for withdrawal and pain management. Don’t give too much details. Just tell them new dr cold turkey cut her off due to his views and she is suffering. In the meanwhile write an email to that dr office requesting records and after getting them in your thank you email tell them you will be suing them for malpractice. Not because they won’t prescribe pain killers but for cutting her off cold turkey with no withdrawal management.
Am I missing something why is nobody talking about her right to choose to be pregnant or not. She is allowed to change her mind. Forget the specific reason. She has a right to not want to have a baby even after the fact. I agree OP’s emotions are valid and he is allowed to be heartbroken. She also right to terminate a pregnancy for whatever reason she would like. It’s her body. Two things can be true at once.
Wow now you calling your own child stupid. You raised her. You didn’t think she needed guidance or even financial support didn’t occur to you as her parent. I can tell she is your scapegoat and the other one is the favorite. Just wow. Even the way you worded the post is weird. They enjoyed their day as if that’s a bad thing. If there were logistical issues it was due to lack of how she was raised and lack of guidance and support from her loved ones. I bet you and your favorite daughter make it a habit to bash her continuously YTA
So she had limited budget put more importance on the dress and documenting the day. I think you could’ve stood up for her. It sounds like you were judging your own kid. If they couldn’t afford the food you guys could’ve helped as a family. Instead of smearing your own daughter’s name. Sounds such a mean thing to do coming from your own mom. I get it the etiquette is that they feed the people but she had to pick something and she pickets documenting the day while in a beautiful dress. I’m not agreeing or disagreeing with her actions but I’m certainly questioning how you supported her before during and after her wedding. Shame.
My personal mindset is, if more than a few days have passed & I forgot/havent seen the person they asked me to say hi too, I don’t tell them. Unless the person comes up in convo, then I might quickly go “Oh, I forgot I saw them recently and they wanted me to tell you hi!”
And it’s perfectly fine to pass the hi. Even the person who says it won’t remember it. It’s a social thing they do. It’s not that big of a deal. It’s nice if you do it but harmless I’d you don’t. In the end it’s not a mission that has to be completed
It depends. You need to first determine whether you need internal or external validation and the only way to figure that out is analyzing why that specific moment not feel pretty. What little thing during your day triggered it. Was it a disapproval look someone gave you in passing or someone who gave you a backhanded comment OR was it something you saw like a photo of you from the past, an unflattering photo you’ve been tagged in or seeing yourself in the mirror.
He knew EXACTLY what he was doing. Claiming innocence is total bullshit. Then he gaslights you -- claiming you're jealous. He's a 100% asshole. You are not over-reacting. What he did was rude, cruel, condescending, bullying, inappropriate, and hateful. He owes you a sincere apology. If he refuses or worse, digs in deeper, is this who you want to spend the rest of your life with? You are NTA
So he watched you take an edible, waited for it to kick in and then started initiating sex. He was of sound mind, you were not. He was definitely taking advantage of you. He knows you don’t like having sex without a condom and chose to put you in a position where you couldn’t see what he was doing and he chose to continue without a condom (knowing you wouldn’t be okay with this). This is wrong on so many levels. He fully took advantage of you and that is not okay.
I know right. It boggles my mind. If I had unlimited amount of money after paying off everything I owe and making sure my family and loved ones are taken care of long term I would use every penny to end homelessness and advocate for positive change using my influence. After awhile having that much money is just more money. It’s more numbers in the bank. You are already able to supply your luxury life style. What you gonna do with the rest.
You sound inexperienced or too naive. The best way to hide is in plain sight. Men who are cheaters do it in your face this way rather than hide it cause it’s easier to spike that exact same thought you did and create plausible deniability. That’s why he would have told her.
And you sound like you’re projecting. You don’t know the dynamic between OP and her boyfriend - whether this is a pattern of repeated behavior or a one-time thing. She says she trusts him implicitly, which implies she’s never had a reason to feel this way before.
Based on the way the doctor prescribes it yes. Have you not been admitted to a hospital before. If the doctor says as needed rather than as scheduled, if the doctor says between X and Y dose based on pain level, the nurses job is to ask the patient the pain level than based on that use the appropriate dose. Given there is stigma against painkillers and personal beliefs there is plenty of nurses that uses those guidelines to abuse that power and still technically not breaking any rules.
That explains it. You come as the moral high ground of I’m a nurse and you have this sense of delusion that all nurses do what they supposed to do. As a person who had over 20 surgeries been hospitalized multiple times for extended periods of time I can tell you nurses do use discretion. They get joy out of abusing patients a different way than doctors do. Doctors are arrogant got god complex and dismissive get joy out of frustrating you. Nurses have more power as your care giver to make things hell. Aside from the abuse they are given discretion which makes it more suitable for abuse. You completely disregarded in how they get that discretion based on how the dr enters the prescription cause you know it’s true. You carry on with your high horse and talk to someone else about your disagreements though instead of trying to defending the “good” name of nurses.
I used to clean for a woman who couldn't cut her own food. I also couldn't clean her spaces with anything except products that she chose (distilled white vinegar was too harsh for her). She also didn't drive and wore a parka with winter hats and gloves in the middle of the summer in southern Spain. She was a nice woman but she'd wrangle invites for lunch from friends so that they would prepare and cut up food to her very exacting specifications. One day while cleaning her holiday rental I overheard her tell her boyfriend that he would get injured because of the way he was holding the book he was reading (she couldn't carry anything, if she got you to take her somewhere she was going to ask if you minded taking her to the grocery store and could you carry it in and put it away for her.)
That’s because cats can give you Bartonella just by scratching you, and then there is proven connection between Bartonella and schizophrenia. Unfortunately due to lack of awareness even the CDC guidelines things Bartonella is mild infection that can be treated with two weeks of antibiotics or anti-parasite medication. Speaking from experience, my kid had it, and he almost got diagnosed with schizophrenia, had severe delusions until he was treated with anti parasitic medications for quite some time and now he’s perfectly fine.
Why would it be weird? It’s something that was giving her joy and it seems you have these stuck up ideas and felt embarrassed by her. It seems that you are transferring your insecurities onto her with your anger.
I'm sure the pharmacy can notate your account to only release prescriptions to you with your ID only. Next, this lady isn't your friend. She set this up to source her addiction.
Yeah otherwise you can give name and birthdate and pickup the medication
This post is all over the place. Crying because you “have no where to go”. Does this mean you are treated unfairly in shops/public?
Things op describing is heavy in your face microagression via dog whistling. When describe it sounds harmless or crazy. Also not offensive to the unintended ear. I get what OP is saying cause I myself witness all of these things with my family and more. Sundown towns, the demeanor of people, daily harmless things being used to create a racially hostile environment. These are thing you can only understand if you experience first hand not read about it.
My ex husband’s friend from childhood ask him to donate. I straight up said no. I explained beyond child support how complicated things could get because there will be a whole person and one day this person will seek their father. I also explained that I’m not okay with the situation period. It’s way more complicated than just giving your sperm. Emotions will be involved. He will forever be attached to the mother and it will complicate our relationship not to mention how he will feel about things in the future. While we are dealing with our marriage our children and our daily challenges this will add one more challenge (and not a simple one) to our lives. There is no way he would have been not want to be involved once the child was born. What if he feels attached to the baby but she didn’t feel that way. It’s a convoluted topic that none of us were remotely ready for. He ended up not doing it. You are allowed to say I don’t want this. This isn’t the time to be apologetic about it. This decision affects both of you in the long term. I mean a whole person will be created. This is not like giving money to someone. Child support is the least of you guys’ worries.
Ugh. Just yesterday I had a guy get in his feelings because I said I was married but was t wearing a ring. My marital status didn’t change because I didn’t have a ring on that minute.
Yep I was married for 20 years and neither one of us wore a ring or even owned one. A ring doesn’t make me married a marriage does. We both knew we were married and carried ourselves accordingly. Never had issues. I had men ask me if I was happily married. Men don’t care. And I totally don’t want men to leave me alone because they respect another man. They need to leave me alone cause I said no. It’s demeaning when a man leaves you alone only after you tell them you are “spoken for”.
This is why we women need to share and not listen to those people telling us to keep miscarriages, pregnancies (the first 3 months in case of a miscarriage), ectopic pregnancy, inability to get pregnant while actively trying to ourselves. Telling us it’s a private matter. It’s extremely isolating. It encourages other women to share their stories. It creates a support system. I hate those people who thinks it’s impolite to share these stories. No it’s extremely isolating and painful to hide. Women deserve better support. It creates a community. Brings people together. Joy multiples when you share pains and sadness divides. Never forget that.
He's been begging me to "really sit" on his face since before I even started losing weight. One of these days I'm going to surprise him and do it. (I currently just hover.)
I was unsure too my men loves it when I do it and if they need to breathe they can shove you which is also hot. Look at my post history find the post about me asking. You will change your perspective about face sitting vs hovering. Life changing experience 😂
I will check out that post. Thank you!
Before you read post I want to tell you I was a person who was extremely skinny like 90-115lbs even though I have 3 kids. Due to health and some medications I gained so much weight. At some point I was 200lbs. Right now I’m like 185lbs. So as you read
While she is looking for a new pain dr she needs to go to the er for them to treat her for the withdrawal. Before they discharge her ask them to prescribe butrans patch for withdrawal and pain management. Don’t give too much details. Just tell them new dr cold turkey cut her off due to his views and she is suffering. In the meanwhile write an email to that dr office requesting records and after getting them in your thank you email tell them you will be suing them for malpractice. Not because they won’t prescribe pain killers but for cutting her off cold turkey with no withdrawal management.
Monk
NTA and I would never be able to trust her again. She went against your wishes to please her daughter. This is not a marriage.
Am I missing something why is nobody talking about her right to choose to be pregnant or not. She is allowed to change her mind. Forget the specific reason. She has a right to not want to have a baby even after the fact. I agree OP’s emotions are valid and he is allowed to be heartbroken. She also right to terminate a pregnancy for whatever reason she would like. It’s her body. Two things can be true at once.
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Wow now you calling your own child stupid. You raised her. You didn’t think she needed guidance or even financial support didn’t occur to you as her parent. I can tell she is your scapegoat and the other one is the favorite. Just wow. Even the way you worded the post is weird. They enjoyed their day as if that’s a bad thing. If there were logistical issues it was due to lack of how she was raised and lack of guidance and support from her loved ones. I bet you and your favorite daughter make it a habit to bash her continuously YTA
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So she had limited budget put more importance on the dress and documenting the day. I think you could’ve stood up for her. It sounds like you were judging your own kid. If they couldn’t afford the food you guys could’ve helped as a family. Instead of smearing your own daughter’s name. Sounds such a mean thing to do coming from your own mom. I get it the etiquette is that they feed the people but she had to pick something and she pickets documenting the day while in a beautiful dress. I’m not agreeing or disagreeing with her actions but I’m certainly questioning how you supported her before during and after her wedding. Shame.
My personal mindset is, if more than a few days have passed & I forgot/havent seen the person they asked me to say hi too, I don’t tell them. Unless the person comes up in convo, then I might quickly go “Oh, I forgot I saw them recently and they wanted me to tell you hi!”
And it’s perfectly fine to pass the hi. Even the person who says it won’t remember it. It’s a social thing they do. It’s not that big of a deal. It’s nice if you do it but harmless I’d you don’t. In the end it’s not a mission that has to be completed
It depends. You need to first determine whether you need internal or external validation and the only way to figure that out is analyzing why that specific moment not feel pretty. What little thing during your day triggered it. Was it a disapproval look someone gave you in passing or someone who gave you a backhanded comment OR was it something you saw like a photo of you from the past, an unflattering photo you’ve been tagged in or seeing yourself in the mirror.
He knew EXACTLY what he was doing. Claiming innocence is total bullshit. Then he gaslights you -- claiming you're jealous. He's a 100% asshole. You are not over-reacting. What he did was rude, cruel, condescending, bullying, inappropriate, and hateful. He owes you a sincere apology. If he refuses or worse, digs in deeper, is this who you want to spend the rest of your life with? You are NTA
He was dog whistling so he can use plausible deniability.
Being a business owner. Everyone thinks you just make your own hours and work whenever you want. Id trade it all to clock out at 5pm.
No instead you work 24/7
Fame
So he watched you take an edible, waited for it to kick in and then started initiating sex. He was of sound mind, you were not. He was definitely taking advantage of you. He knows you don’t like having sex without a condom and chose to put you in a position where you couldn’t see what he was doing and he chose to continue without a condom (knowing you wouldn’t be okay with this). This is wrong on so many levels. He fully took advantage of you and that is not okay.
Taking advantage of? LMAO That’s called rape
Read the edit. I already corrected myself.
Wonderful. Thanks
It’s sad the change he could create in the world and he just doesn’t care about anything more than money.
I know right. It boggles my mind. If I had unlimited amount of money after paying off everything I owe and making sure my family and loved ones are taken care of long term I would use every penny to end homelessness and advocate for positive change using my influence. After awhile having that much money is just more money. It’s more numbers in the bank. You are already able to supply your luxury life style. What you gonna do with the rest.
I can make myself multi-orgasm over 30 times in one go with it lasting anywhere from 1-5 minutes.
Okay, I’ve seen a lot of “he’s cheating” comments here, so before I get downvoted into oblivion, please allow me to play devil’s advocate.
You sound inexperienced or too naive. The best way to hide is in plain sight. Men who are cheaters do it in your face this way rather than hide it cause it’s easier to spike that exact same thought you did and create plausible deniability. That’s why he would have told her.
And you sound like you’re projecting. You don’t know the dynamic between OP and her boyfriend - whether this is a pattern of repeated behavior or a one-time thing. She says she trusts him implicitly, which implies she’s never had a reason to feel this way before.
Cheating got nothing to do with gender lol
Sorry, no, nurses do not get to use their discretion and pick a smaller dose. That’s called practicing medicine.
Based on the way the doctor prescribes it yes. Have you not been admitted to a hospital before. If the doctor says as needed rather than as scheduled, if the doctor says between X and Y dose based on pain level, the nurses job is to ask the patient the pain level than based on that use the appropriate dose. Given there is stigma against painkillers and personal beliefs there is plenty of nurses that uses those guidelines to abuse that power and still technically not breaking any rules.
That explains it. You come as the moral high ground of I’m a nurse and you have this sense of delusion that all nurses do what they supposed to do. As a person who had over 20 surgeries been hospitalized multiple times for extended periods of time I can tell you nurses do use discretion. They get joy out of abusing patients a different way than doctors do. Doctors are arrogant got god complex and dismissive get joy out of frustrating you. Nurses have more power as your care giver to make things hell. Aside from the abuse they are given discretion which makes it more suitable for abuse. You completely disregarded in how they get that discretion based on how the dr enters the prescription cause you know it’s true. You carry on with your high horse and talk to someone else about your disagreements though instead of trying to defending the “good” name of nurses.
Not all autistic people are sensory averse some are sensory seekers. Please remember autism is a spectrum
I used to clean for a woman who couldn't cut her own food. I also couldn't clean her spaces with anything except products that she chose (distilled white vinegar was too harsh for her). She also didn't drive and wore a parka with winter hats and gloves in the middle of the summer in southern Spain. She was a nice woman but she'd wrangle invites for lunch from friends so that they would prepare and cut up food to her very exacting specifications. One day while cleaning her holiday rental I overheard her tell her boyfriend that he would get injured because of the way he was holding the book he was reading (she couldn't carry anything, if she got you to take her somewhere she was going to ask if you minded taking her to the grocery store and could you carry it in and put it away for her.)
She sounds more like she has OCDs
Fat yes
She is not fat.
Is science alert a legitimate source? I'm going to wait until I see more about the validity of this.
Please read my
That’s because cats can give you Bartonella just by scratching you, and then there is proven connection between Bartonella and schizophrenia. Unfortunately due to lack of awareness even the CDC guidelines things Bartonella is mild infection that can be treated with two weeks of antibiotics or anti-parasite medication. Speaking from experience, my kid had it, and he almost got diagnosed with schizophrenia, had severe delusions until he was treated with anti parasitic medications for quite some time and now he’s perfectly fine.
Lol. Thank goodness I wasn't the only person watching this thinking "Fuck, I am in the wrong line of work."
It would have been cheaper to pay a woman to have sex with and scream you are a man while did it. It would’ve been the cheaper option
Why would it be weird? It’s something that was giving her joy and it seems you have these stuck up ideas and felt embarrassed by her. It seems that you are transferring your insecurities onto her with your anger.