I am grateful that you are documenting this history. So many stories fell silent, for so many reasons, but after enough time, it just seems important to acknowledge that the *people suffer on all sides of war.
No method haha. We got a big funnel and filled it with the memory foam first, thinking that the beads would easily fill up the cracks later with enough shaking. That worked just fine!
I came here for this too. It might be a deal breaker for me. I don’t appreciate the intrusion tbh. And the welcome to vip? LAME. If it’s mandatory, then there are no non vip.
Saw this a bit late, but my first thought was, wow - this guy’s been married to his wife an hour and he is lying to her. Every ounce of her disappointment is on him. Grody to the max. Her entitled reaction isn’t great, but it was fully inspired by her new husband. If she’s in on it, I guess they are made for each other, and you know no time for people like that. Enjoy your lives and goodbye.
The love is for something that no longer exists. McFries were THE best for years and years. But they changed them. It’s old news. The ones now are ok, better than some iterations between their peak and now.
You don’t need to divulge anything, and I wouldn’t right away. She needs to learn to respect you whether the sexual act that conceived her was consensual or not. Her judgement of you is the primary issue, not what she is judging, correct or not. I am sorry that you are wading through this. Sending you love. These kids don’t know what they do to us….
Wow, I am so sorry. He’s so far out of control. Fetish can be fantasy. Geez. If I am going to negotiate being a breeder, where’s my team? Day nanny, night nanny, personal assistant, cook, cleaner… I will just lay here and alternate between lactating and ovulating.
How the heck do you enforce art rules in this game? The art is so limited, so Ick, so expensive. And if all that weren’t enough, you can’t even move it to center it (you can in Playhouse—just sayin’) or make it fit in with a canopy bed. Needless rant non withstanding, I’m curious as to your rules and how you apply them to the game.
Well, to me it's about whether the art is appropriate. Things that fall under craftsmanship (like sconces) can be repeated, but things that fall under art are meant to be unique and one of a kind. Seeing two of the same bothers me. So every time I see two of the same, it's a no. And because it's so common, it makes voting go rather quickly. I just screen the art. And if there are two designs that are IMO art appropriate, then I look for effort. I don't scrutinize the furniture that people use unless there are two that are just really vying. Those I really enjoy judging and take more time. But I would say that more than 50% have double art or no art. I would rather see no art than inappropriate art. One piece of art is better than two matching. Also inappropriate IMO is art above a canopy bed or under the headboard. I'm probably weird, but things that just don't go IRL bug me in the game. I hope I don't come off as overly invested in my snobbery ;)
You are a beautiful person. Your son is lucky to have you. I am glad your future won’t be entangled with such a deeply awful person. Best of luck to you and your kid.
Yta, but I would leave all of your money in trust for the kid that needs it. The other two have clearly indicated that they are opting out of a communal system, and that’s okay. They have every right to create their own lives and you don’t need to support them anymore. Funnel your resources into a real, sustainable plan.
So… what I have found useful is closing my eyes. It’s not 100% foolproof because thoughts run amok, but it’s still extremely useful. Deprive the visual sense, more headspace to process audio. Works v well for phone conversation.
In my experience, as vocal as I am, it is difficult to get men to stick longer at a slower pace. I am just done with being fucked hard. There is a time for it, but dang, not the whole time.
I always play white when it’s available. If not, orchid.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mod_(subculture)
Sorry about the confusion! Yeah I didn’t hear goth till the 90s, at least not in california 80s
this is the 80s, it's goth 😤
Mods.
I am grateful that you are documenting this history. So many stories fell silent, for so many reasons, but after enough time, it just seems important to acknowledge that the *people suffer on all sides of war.
No method haha. We got a big funnel and filled it with the memory foam first, thinking that the beads would easily fill up the cracks later with enough shaking. That worked just fine!
Hi, dragging this out again :) Do you recall the ratio bead:foam you used? A year later, any new wisdom?
Reminds me of hotels in Asia. Shower’s a show ;)
I like dining rooms, I have many really expensive tables that I’ve earned, and chairs are cheap.
I came here for this too. It might be a deal breaker for me. I don’t appreciate the intrusion tbh. And the welcome to vip? LAME. If it’s mandatory, then there are no non vip.
Saw this a bit late, but my first thought was, wow - this guy’s been married to his wife an hour and he is lying to her. Every ounce of her disappointment is on him. Grody to the max. Her entitled reaction isn’t great, but it was fully inspired by her new husband. If she’s in on it, I guess they are made for each other, and you know no time for people like that. Enjoy your lives and goodbye.
I'm glad there wasn't so much of a focus on "the look" when I got married.
Family >Fashion (usually lol) NTA
I really hope you enjoyed your long weekend with yourself :) nta!
The love is for something that no longer exists. McFries were THE best for years and years. But they changed them. It’s old news. The ones now are ok, better than some iterations between their peak and now.
You don’t need to divulge anything, and I wouldn’t right away. She needs to learn to respect you whether the sexual act that conceived her was consensual or not. Her judgement of you is the primary issue, not what she is judging, correct or not. I am sorry that you are wading through this. Sending you love. These kids don’t know what they do to us….
Wow, I am so sorry. He’s so far out of control. Fetish can be fantasy. Geez. If I am going to negotiate being a breeder, where’s my team? Day nanny, night nanny, personal assistant, cook, cleaner… I will just lay here and alternate between lactating and ovulating.
I’m an art snob, so that’s what is primarily on my mind when I vote. Makes it quick and easy since so many people break my art rules lol
How the heck do you enforce art rules in this game? The art is so limited, so Ick, so expensive. And if all that weren’t enough, you can’t even move it to center it (you can in Playhouse—just sayin’) or make it fit in with a canopy bed. Needless rant non withstanding, I’m curious as to your rules and how you apply them to the game.
Well, to me it's about whether the art is appropriate. Things that fall under craftsmanship (like sconces) can be repeated, but things that fall under art are meant to be unique and one of a kind. Seeing two of the same bothers me. So every time I see two of the same, it's a no. And because it's so common, it makes voting go rather quickly. I just screen the art. And if there are two designs that are IMO art appropriate, then I look for effort. I don't scrutinize the furniture that people use unless there are two that are just really vying. Those I really enjoy judging and take more time. But I would say that more than 50% have double art or no art. I would rather see no art than inappropriate art. One piece of art is better than two matching. Also inappropriate IMO is art above a canopy bed or under the headboard. I'm probably weird, but things that just don't go IRL bug me in the game. I hope I don't come off as overly invested in my snobbery ;)
If their relationship cannot survive honesty and requires spying, not much to salvage anyway. NTA
“Before she told other people.” You are NTA.
Hmmm what’s worse? Insulting your looks, or manipulating you? Two strikes buddy.
Nope. You are wrong. You are NTA. You married a boy. Needs to grow up. You deserve better in life. Sounds like you have a good head.
You are a beautiful person. Your son is lucky to have you. I am glad your future won’t be entangled with such a deeply awful person. Best of luck to you and your kid.
Yta, but I would leave all of your money in trust for the kid that needs it. The other two have clearly indicated that they are opting out of a communal system, and that’s okay. They have every right to create their own lives and you don’t need to support them anymore. Funnel your resources into a real, sustainable plan.
So… what I have found useful is closing my eyes. It’s not 100% foolproof because thoughts run amok, but it’s still extremely useful. Deprive the visual sense, more headspace to process audio. Works v well for phone conversation.
Me too! Thanks! I wish the lamps glowed also.
There are a few lamps that glow! What stools are those?
Le-Coterie - Curly Mandy Natural White Tibetan Lamb
Thanks!!
In my experience, as vocal as I am, it is difficult to get men to stick longer at a slower pace. I am just done with being fucked hard. There is a time for it, but dang, not the whole time.
Glad you survived to share this shitty tale.
“You aren’t living up to your potential.” Most commonly heard phrase. Dx at 31. Now it’s generational trauma. Fuck.