1. I think (hope) you might be surprised by how many people come down on your side of this. I’m so sorry he violated your privacy this way.

  2. My first pregnancy symptom was a markedly decreased tolerance for both weed and alcohol (just didn’t realize it was a pregnancy symptom until later). It started so early on, around a week and a half after I got pregnant.

  3. You might want to try posting on R/abortion as well. They’re a very kind, non-judgmental community with some great mods who can point you in the direction of resources to help you figure out what you want.

  4. You’re not a weak piece of shit. You’re going through a very difficult time with your mental health and you did what you needed to to try and feel better. You took care of yourself. That’s a good thing.

  5. I had an unplanned pregnancy that I terminated last month. The community at

  6. Medical examiners lie about or get cause of death wrong all the time. It’s extremely common. It’s completely unsurprising that an ME would say that in a conservative state about a queer child murdered by their classmates in a public school that it sounds like not only does very well in sports but that the community and police force has many ties to. Lots of pressure to protect and uphold that school and its students and say that Nex died of literally anything but this fight. Especially if any major sports players were involved in the attack.

  7. I liked the new season a lot. I caught only two references to the first season, maybe that’s why I’m less frustrated with the new season than some others. But I thought it was a solid season. Did some things feel a bit rushed during the end and a little too neatly tied up with a bow? Sure, a little bit. But that’s my only very small complaint. The setting was fantastic, the performances were flawless, Kali Reis went toe to toe with Jodie Foster and they were such a pleasure to watch every week playing two flawed, layered characters. It was bleak and disturbing, just like the first season, and just like the first season, the forbidding location itself was a character. Also, Night Country gave us the corpsicle, which was such a great practical effect. I liked the more supernatural elements as well. And the twist, while maybe not led up to as smoothly as I would have liked, was satisfying to me for the most part. I think it makes a solid point about

  8. I’ve been where you are. It’s going to take a bit for the shock to wear off. Take some deep breaths. It sounds like you’ve got some good support IRL and all of us on this sub are here for you, too. It’s going to be ok 🖤 sending you love

  9. I’m right there with you. I had my SA on 1/30 and I just seem ?? to have stopped bleeding in the last couple days. Still cramping most nights, although I think that’s probably due to my new IUD. I am so ready for this to be over.

  10. Had my SA two weeks ago. In my experience, the anxiety and anticipation ahead of time was by far the worst part, and the relief when it was over was immediate and overwhelming. I’m so sorry you’re going through this, the anxiety is just brutal.

  11. I’m so sorry you’re going through this. You’re right, it’s not fair. You did everything right, sometimes the birth control just fails. Crossing my fingers for you that it’s not ectopic and you can make whatever decision is right for you 🖤

  12. I’m so sorry. I’m two weeks out and I’ve also been feeling really sad or depressed at times. I got so frustrated last week because I just wanted to be done feeling sad. The abortion workbook that another commenter linked has been helpful for me, and also listening to The Abortion Diary podcast and reading other people’s stories.

  13. I’m so sorry, pregnancy symptoms can be rough. Obviously everyone’s experience will be different, but I’m exactly two weeks post-abortion (surgical at 8.5 weeks) and started feeling like myself emotionally and physically at about the 1.5 week mark. I still get twinges of sadness, but the mood swings and big emotions seem to be done now. The nausea went away immediately and I ate like I’ve never eaten in my life for 2-3 days. Boobs went back to normal after 4-5 days. My sense of smell stayed sharp for at least a week after - it may still be heightened, I’m not sure - but the smells don’t make me sick anymore. This is TMI, but my boyfriend and I like to play a little rough, and I was way too physically sensitive for that while I was pregnant. That went away within a day or two. I’m still bleeding lightly, but I also had an IUD placed during my abortion, so that may be why.

  14. I had my SA last week. From when we found out to when I was able to get the abortion was 27 days. I never considered any options besides abortion, never doubted that was what I wanted, never felt attached at all; I only cried twice the whole time, and both times were from the stress of being pregnant when I didn’t want to be and trying to hide it for what felt like so long.

  15. I had my SA at 8w4d last week in the US, and I was also nervous about the cervical injection. I had 800 mgs ibuprofen for pain management and IV Versed for anxiety. I didn’t even notice the cervical shot. I know they told me they were doing it, I may ?? have felt a slight pinch but I’m not even sure, and the Versed made me not care. It’s also made my memory of the procedure fuzzy. I still remember most of it, but it’s patchy. The worst of the pain for me was 8/10, lasted exactly two minutes, and was like my worst period cramps but shorter. When it got the most painful, the nurse told me “60 more seconds”, and that really helped me, I knew I could do one minute of that easy. Physically, it was easier than getting a tooth pulled.

  16. Just had my SA last week. However you feel is valid and normal, and it may fluctuate, especially after. For me, the moment it was done, I sobbed from relief. And relief has continued to be the main emotion for me in the days since, although there have been chunks of time where I’ve been extremely sad and just cried (the hormone crash afterward is no joke, in my experience). It’s been helpful for me to read others’ stories on this sub, on the Abortion Diary podcast, and to check in with myself about why I made my decision. My reasons are still there and I don’t regret my decision. I just feel sad about it sometimes, and that’s ok. Someone described it as your body feeling one thing while your mind feels another, which I’ve found pretty accurate. Now that I’m a week and a half out, I’m starting to feel like myself again.

  17. You and I have a pretty similar story. My LMP was also 11/29, I got a positive test 1/3, confirmed it at PP on 1/4, called on 1/5 to make the appointment. They didn’t have anything until 1/30, which is when I had my SA. It’s still legal in my state and I didn’t have to have multiple appointments, so in that way I was fortunate, but all the surrounding states either have total bans or severe restrictions, so wait times in my state are way up due to folks coming here from out of state to receive care.

  18. No she didn’t open the door , the neighbour’s had to be disturbed instead .

  19. ESH, 2 hours is excessive. If you really want to make a point, go out and do something so you aren't home. Then you also don't look as bad.

  20. He had the option to go get the spare key at any time. Why does she have to rearrange her lone day off so she “doesn’t look as bad” when her brother is intentionally forgetting his key to make her let him in? What in the actual misogynist hell kind of logic is that?

  21. Info: OP, did you at any point in the conversation fully own your responsibility and mistakes? Did you say I’m sorry, you’re right, there’s no excuse, I should have been there for you, and if you’ll let me, I will spend the rest of my life doing everything I can to make up for it? Or did you simply make excuses and blame your ex-wife? I’m genuinely asking.

  22. So you’re already protecting your abuser. There’s a good reason that would make people angry.

  23. Eh, there’s no point in getting angry at an abuse victim for doing what they’ve been conditioned to do, it just helps to further isolate them as the abuser wants. I get it, I’ve certainly been mad at people for seemingly refusing to see the obvious, but it’s just not helpful in the long run.

  24. C’mon, the man’s got a nose that was meant for hooverin’ schneef.

  25. It’s the same crappy behaviour we’re seeing with Taylor and the fake nude images. No empathy at all

  26. The only part I’m mad about with that situation is that it took the victim being Taylor Swift for people with the power to do something to care. Like it was fine when it was just happening to millions of women and children. No one should ever be put through that, famous, wealthy, or not.

  27. Likely some are repeat victims so may not be 26k separate women but I haven't read study.

  28. On this timeline? Almost certainly not. I’m not sure when they’re counting from exactly, but it’s only been a year and a half since Dobbs, and TX outlawed sometime shortly after that, I believe.

  29. its either dipshits or astroturfed. if its not astroturfing, do they really think trump or haley wouldnt immediately give carte blanche to bibi to just fucking level the entire place? people need to get a grip on reality.

  30. Those aren’t the only two options. You can/should protest the genocide AND still vote for Biden in November. You vote for the least worst option and then try to make them do the right thing once you’ve put them in power.

  31. People liked her bit in the Bond movie, but that may have been due to her dress...

  32. The dress was great, but Ana de Armas did a great job with a small part. She knocked being a Bond woman out of the park. Looked great, sure, but also sold the hell out of those action sequences and just came off as smart and really good at her job. In the hands of a lesser actress, I think it could have been quite a forgettable character. There’s been plenty of Bond girls who looked great but left no mark.

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