1. I’m in a lovely ldr. We’re 9 hours apart but have a great balance between accommodating for the time+distance and still supporting and encouraging each other’s personal hobbies and lives.

  2. Put the bed against the wall that has the brown dresser thingy against it, switch their places, it looks like it’s roomy enough and it would be much prettier and FEEL very different. Along with new bed sheets, some cozy light source, new curtains and some sort of chair or seating somewhere. Good luck!

  3. I worked at a garage with interior and exterior maintenance, once I was in the lunch room and my boss started talking about how maybe I should be in the front room greeting the customers instead, since I’m a woman and easy on the eyes. No thanks. I enjoyed being in the back listening to music and doing my job. There was a lot of talk like this that happened, I didn’t stay at that place for long.

  4. Flaskor med hett vatten i, det brukar jag sova med om det är kallt eller om jag har ångest, brukar köra med två, en på vardera sida typ vid höfter/lår höjd men är det riktigt jävla kallt så har jag en extra vid fötterna. Har du möjlighet att köpa värmefilt så är det förstås det bättre alternativet! Även kuddar bredvid sig i sängen hjälper att hålla värmen.

  5. You’re insecure and controlling. Even saying you’re “possessive” over your gf is gross. She’s a human being not a chair or a pet or something.

  6. Maybe you need a reality check here. You’re acting in a way that warrants her dumping your ass and you’re doing it anyway, I hope she does dump you. She’s not there to be owned by you, she’s there because she’s choosing to give of herself to you and what she gives should be cherished. The same goes the other way around. She’s not a thing, she’s a whole person and you have no right to be possessive as she is, again, not a possession. Gosh this pisses me off so much. It’s great that you’re looking for answers and recognise this as a problem, but you better start acting right sooner rather than later and get rid of your sense of entitlement that makes you act in such a way. Sorry for the harshness but SERIOUSLY dude, get real and good luck.

  7. At almost any opportunity, several times a day. Somehow it doesn’t feel rehearsed which I’ve experienced in the past with people before him. It seems to genuinely just be something that pops up in his mind and he is very generous with sharing it! My love is such a sweet man.

  8. This really is the kind of thing where “right” is just based on what works for you. If you feel fine about it that’s valid, if you don’t feel fine about it that’s valid too.

  9. I always thought we had to be super similar to be a good fit. Same hobbies, similar thoughts and ideas, similar drive in different areas, similar difficulties. Oh man, was I wrong.

  10. I stained my (now) husbands couch with curry and he said “something to remember you by” and we both cried.

  11. This is so chaotic and relatable, dang it, congratulations on the marriage and I wish you both a beautiful life ahead!

  12. The glass water bottle he uses while here is the way he left it, plenty of water left, sitting next to my bed. A T-shirt he sweat a little bit in is next to my pillows and will be until he comes back. Gosh I miss him.

  13. He was crushing on me when he was 15 and I was 21, obviously I had no interest to even find out more about it because he was just a teenager, I was however able to platonically agree that the boy had a beautiful face, he could become a model some day probably.

  14. If my man arrived one day early, I would be unshowered, my bedsheets wouldn’t be fresh and I’d be in the middle of cleaning. Leaving some things for the last morning before arrival to make it pristine when he arrives. I’d be beyond happy, but I’d also curse myself. A lot. You COULD surprise her by saying 2-4 days beforehand that “Hey btw I’m coming over”. For myself, that’d be perfect. It would be a surprise but I’d have time to prepare. Either way, have fun, I’m happy for y’all

  15. I’ve gone through this a couple of times now with my beautiful man, after he goes back to his country I cry at everything, I can’t make myself change the bedsheets for way too long, I let a coffee cup or something just stay where he left it until I’m ready to put it away, his scent lingers for the first week and yeah there’s just a lot of crying and getting used to not being able to reach out and touch him anymore… but it gets bearable again. Feeling this way when apart is a good indicator that your connection is real and that it’s a relationship worth investing in. Or something. It’s shit but it’s also so nice to know that you’ve been lucky enough to meet someone you care so much for. What I find works best for me is; we both agree that in our time apart we’re gonna work on ourselves so we’re even better the next time we meet. So now we’re saving money, working out, improving in whatever skills, learning things and of course planning our future. It might not be the wisest or healthiest to almost act like the time apart is a downtime, we both genuinely feel like life gets useless when we’re an ocean apart, but this idea of like “I’m doing it for us and I’m doing it good” in every day actually helps. For us. I hope you’ll find a way that helps you cope!

  16. Right now I imagine that in 5 years I’ll live in America and have at least one baby, with my beautiful man who is so sweet. Hopefully I’ve steered my career in a different direction successfully and am in good shape. And hopefully the later half of the 20s is nicer to everyone than the first half seems determined to be.

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