Thrift store items having demons.

Finding groups with similar interests. Joining a book club, yoga group, foodie meet up, classes on how to do things, stuff like that. I honestly make more friends outside of bars than in them.

I wouldn't think much of it, honestly. I personally don't spend a lot of time on my skin unless my psoriasis is acting up.

Is that a reference to hook? As in Captain Hook? I feel like that song lives in my memory banks somewhere.

No, the hook as in the chorus of a song. It's a song about listening to a song for a long time but having no idea what the lyrics are.

Deacon Blues. It took 38 years of hearing it on the radio before I caught the "drink scotch whiskey all night long and die behind the wheel" line. After that I looked at the lyrics and realized that it's actually kind of dark.

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I would take that comment with a grain of salt because most modern men and many women do watch porn and it doesn't ruin their lives. As for supporting pedophiles, just watch porn with older actors.

that actually kinda makes sense yeah, so it would be a good idea to tell my therapist about this?

I would and you need to also learn about the male reproductive system just as you've hopefully learned about yours. Frequent ejaculation can lower men's risk of certain health issues.

Yeah you can’t make it so the next person gets the bill, but if you’re renting the property owner will get it after you cancel. They have it until the next person turns it on.

That's not how it works where I live. The landlord would have to call to put them back in their name. Most of them would absolutely not take on the responsibility of current tenant's utilities, plus then the tenants would have to have everything turned off and back on twice which would be even worse.

I get it. This is done so tenants can’t cancel power and let their landlord’s pipes freeze while they go on vacation.

That could certainly be a concern in some places. Here it's not likely because of how rarely it gets that cold.

First the drugs, then the emotional abuse and then finally the cheating.

They're exactly the same as the men who try to change women.

They don’t have to for about 75 years.

This is the thing that bothers me the most about American medicine. They can literally do and say anything with zero consequences. I read an article just yesterday where they're once again claiming to have found a side effect free and non-addictive pain killer, and people are going to fall for that garbage again. It makes me fearful of taking any new stuff they toss out there.

Tell her you're tired of her being a spoiled brat and that if she isn't capable of handling adulthood to move back in with her mother. She needs to hear it like it is.

Ask her to clarify these things. No one who is not her will be able to tell you what she is thinking.

This is the correct answer. He was not like this when we got married nearly 9 years ago. He has gotten worse with pretty much everything the older he gets.

Especially when addiction happens. I don't think the type of addiction even matters, it eventually destroys certain people.

I play video games too, and I fully understand the therapeutic value of doing so. But I manage my time so that I can still be a present parent. He would rather spend all of his free time playing video games or watching Hassan Piker on YouTube.

I too play video games and I drink alcohol too. However the difference between enjoying a recreational activity and addiction is letting them take over your life. Once you do that everything falls apart.

His deceased dog's toys. Every time he sees them he gets sad again and I hate when he's not happy. Still they're his to do with what he likes.

Completely unlikely. A threat would be pulling out a real gun.

Multiple Orgasms.

Unless you never manage to achieve orgasm.

Not a problem for me sooo 🤷🏽‍♀️ as a female I would say it is one thing in my life that doesn’t suck.

Not a problem for me either but I know a lot of women for whom it is, so I don't really consider it a default female experience.

Lease is up so now its more of month to month. I feel like if I’m going to confront and try to leave I’ll get weak because of course i love him. But at the same point I don’t want to settle for any less then what i want.

Well you need to figure that out on your own then. It's normal to have deal breakers but there's no such thing as an absolutely perfect partner so you need to decide what you're willing to live with and what you aren't.

To me this will be deal breaker because I’ve told his 100 times already about this that i want a thoughtful gift and also that it will make or break our relationship. It’s also that i want to see how serious he takes me when i say something like this. Because I’ve never said anything like this before. Is he too comfortable that he will just ignore my wishes that i will not leave or he will make effort. Because I know many people in his life who he does make efforts I want to know am I one of those or not

Then just split up you guy's stuff and go. You're making this situation way more complicated than it is. Deal breaker = relationship over.

It'll take a lot more than a wild night to redeem. What other "hall pass" options am I missing?

That's what a hall pass is.

After decades married? Not that easy. 1st offense

So you're gonna waste more time waiting until the third time?

Enemies are hacking each other? I'm so shocked and surprised that I'm gonna just go on with my life as normal.

It was a fun time. The majority of children had a lot more freedom of movement than kids do now and everyone was more optimistic about the future. It's been extremely downhill since 9/11. It's like the party ended and everything has slowly been declining since then.

They must do this because people kept asking if it was cheaper to get 2. I know this from having worked in the service industry.

I’m not sure how to articulate the repercussions. I don’t speak to ex (was a really good friend of mine) and the implications would be be furthering distancing myself from my core group of friends.

I've changed friend groups multiple times as an adult and although I still talk to a few of my oldest friends, I've never really worried too much about my life decisions alienating them because that just means we don't have enough in common anymore. I would personally just find a new and more appropriate friend group regardless of your decision of whether or not to date your friend.

I suppose. All of us have been friends for over 10 years. My buddy has created a narrative where he is the victim in their previous relationship and I contributed to the end. Honestly, if we’re happy being together then I don’t particularly care.

Some risks are worth taking, even if only for the experience. Whatever your gut says, I would do that.

I worked with a female incel for a while, it was just as annoying as dealing with a male incel.

What you're doing wrong is dating a person who enjoys drama. She's stirring the pot as they say getting you stressed out, getting kicked out of parties, doing all this stuff with her ex. She's having fun and she will not change.

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Then tell her bluntly how much it bothers you and if she dismissed your feelings decide if you want to be with someone who does that. Also, she probably shouldn't go to parties alone if she can't control herself.

Not destroyed the environment and long term economy for extremely short term gain, not built cities that are unwalkable and unbikable, and not created a nightmarish debt cycle that prevents many people from being happy.

But the pay can be insane.

Any skilled labor pays well if you're good enough at it.

I don't know of any normal job paying triple digits an hour you can get in your early twenties.

Which is why you don't have one.