you did not overreact. it’s perfectly reasonable to confront an adulterous spouse. it’s even more reasonable to confront the adulterous spouse alongside their side piece. its even even more more reasonable to confront adulterous spouse with side piece and side piece’ spouse.
You literally are not addressing anything but doubling down on sucking. Do you see the negative sign next to number on every one of your posts? Those aren’t upvotes, dummy. You know damn well there’s more at play here than taking accountability. Or maybe not…you aren’t bright.
YTAH if you don’t want his mom to visit because “it makes the house messy” and “you don’t go anywhere without her”. those are two things synonymous with guests….. mess and entertaining. so does that mean that no one is allowed over to your place?
YTAH if threats of self harm and physical harm to eachother come up in discussions about whether his mom can visit. i can’t believe that you would tell his mom that she can’t visit. how controlling are you?
Thanks, but they’re not best friends. My husband isn’t one of the groom’s 8 groomsmen, and the groom wasn’t in our wedding party either when we got married.
doesn’t change my opinion. if your husband asked you to attend his GOOD FRIENDS wedding and your only reason not to is because “i don’t want to travel and it’s a huge bother” then understand that you are telling your spouse that you can’t be bothered to travel for something important to him. and that suggests you don’t want to support him.
Before graduate school I worked as a night-shift ICU nurse for 12 hour shifts 3 days a week with overtime several times a month. Worked in the pandemic too. I couldn't go on days I worked but I went on the four days I had off.
Do you think she was calling the child a bastard in a nice way, simply to be factually accurate? Or do you think maybe the tone matched everything else she was saying about OP being a whore? Use some context clues instead of uselessly "um acktually"ing.
What about if/when we have a kid? I mean, if she was legit working, I'd be fine with us getting a nanny, but would it be unreasonable for me to expect her to be a full-time mom considering the circumstances?
YTAH. honestly she should dump you and live independently. you do get that living alone is a lot less chores than living with a boyfriend who resents that you don’t work out of the house.
YTAH. you need to get over that pool party resentment. nothing stopping you from pumping and bottling your milk so you can have a beer at a party. that was your choice. don’t resent him because he didn’t have to make that choice.
Not super resentful about the specific incident, just an example of how it can feel lonely or isolating as a new mother. I did drink sometimes while nursing but it’s not exactly enjoyable to have a buzz while taking care of a tiny baby. I also had postpartum depression and anxiety early on making it even more difficult to enjoy myself in a social setting. It certainly is not his fault he still could enjoy himself but seems a bit cruel of nature that mom is so affected and Dad is just having a good ol’ time.
bromeliad. don’t water the soil. mist the leaves so they catch water in the ‘cup’ that is forming. not too much water. just a little everyday until the leaves flatten. keep out of sunlight.
yes. well, my moms just trying to pick a fight over anything. any-little-thing. i apologize to her that my tone is off and then just move on with my life. it’s true that my tone isn’t spot on, but for her to be upset it’s like…… getting mad a blind person stepped on your toe. if the blind person took every possible precaution to avoid stepping on others toes, they still have a higher than normal chance to step on toes.
you did not overreact. it’s perfectly reasonable to confront an adulterous spouse. it’s even more reasonable to confront the adulterous spouse alongside their side piece. its even even more more reasonable to confront adulterous spouse with side piece and side piece’ spouse.
rent hotel room and host party there?
You literally are not addressing anything but doubling down on sucking. Do you see the negative sign next to number on every one of your posts? Those aren’t upvotes, dummy. You know damn well there’s more at play here than taking accountability. Or maybe not…you aren’t bright.
*figuratively
Nope. Check the dictionary.
did you get a chance to read the article?
advertising and marketing?
YTAH if you don’t want his mom to visit because “it makes the house messy” and “you don’t go anywhere without her”. those are two things synonymous with guests….. mess and entertaining. so does that mean that no one is allowed over to your place?
YTAH if threats of self harm and physical harm to eachother come up in discussions about whether his mom can visit. i can’t believe that you would tell his mom that she can’t visit. how controlling are you?
YTA if you don’t attend your husbands best friends wedding
Thanks, but they’re not best friends. My husband isn’t one of the groom’s 8 groomsmen, and the groom wasn’t in our wedding party either when we got married.
doesn’t change my opinion. if your husband asked you to attend his GOOD FRIENDS wedding and your only reason not to is because “i don’t want to travel and it’s a huge bother” then understand that you are telling your spouse that you can’t be bothered to travel for something important to him. and that suggests you don’t want to support him.
my advice, don’t ever trust anyone who is in a relationship and seeks out your attention. they will do it to you.
YTAH. you need to experience an 8 hr workday and a 2 hour commute before you can judge him for being too tired to go to the gym
Before graduate school I worked as a night-shift ICU nurse for 12 hour shifts 3 days a week with overtime several times a month. Worked in the pandemic too. I couldn't go on days I worked but I went on the four days I had off.
3 days of work for 12 hours and 4 days off is not at all comparable to 5 days of 8 hour days.
you are not wrong. you are an adult man who is capable of making your own decisions.
how fast the horse gets to speed
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well you are in good company here 💕
stop overthinking this, take a test
YTAH. it’s not reasonable to steal from our roommates and throw away their things.
YTAH. why do you want your kid to hang out with a vigilante and takes it upon himself to distribute justice and disagree with the schools rules?
do you have pets? is this in a high foot traffic area?
fun fact, crystals have regular geometric shapes. rocks do not. crystal can be on a rock.
Do you think she was calling the child a bastard in a nice way, simply to be factually accurate? Or do you think maybe the tone matched everything else she was saying about OP being a whore? Use some context clues instead of uselessly "um acktually"ing.
factually accurate
Dude, just shut tf up. You're just being nasty for no reason
i’m sorry you find reality nasty
What about if/when we have a kid? I mean, if she was legit working, I'd be fine with us getting a nanny, but would it be unreasonable for me to expect her to be a full-time mom considering the circumstances?
why wouldn’t you be a full time dad and live off her income?
YTAH. honestly she should dump you and live independently. you do get that living alone is a lot less chores than living with a boyfriend who resents that you don’t work out of the house.
If I move them to the shady side of the yard will they perk back up? Or are they too far gone?
they will come back. give a nice drink of water
pansies don’t like sun or heat
when a guy is continuously disrespectful to you and you allow it, at a certain point you can no longer complain about being disrespected.
YTAH. you need to get over that pool party resentment. nothing stopping you from pumping and bottling your milk so you can have a beer at a party. that was your choice. don’t resent him because he didn’t have to make that choice.
Not super resentful about the specific incident, just an example of how it can feel lonely or isolating as a new mother. I did drink sometimes while nursing but it’s not exactly enjoyable to have a buzz while taking care of a tiny baby. I also had postpartum depression and anxiety early on making it even more difficult to enjoy myself in a social setting. It certainly is not his fault he still could enjoy himself but seems a bit cruel of nature that mom is so affected and Dad is just having a good ol’ time.
you mentioned in your post that you are resentful and “never forgot” about a pool party 8 months ago. i didn’t put those words in your mouth.
i'd guess a bromiliad but i haven't seen one this squat before
probably because it’s had more sun than customary
bromeliad. don’t water the soil. mist the leaves so they catch water in the ‘cup’ that is forming. not too much water. just a little everyday until the leaves flatten. keep out of sunlight.
yes. well, my moms just trying to pick a fight over anything. any-little-thing. i apologize to her that my tone is off and then just move on with my life. it’s true that my tone isn’t spot on, but for her to be upset it’s like…… getting mad a blind person stepped on your toe. if the blind person took every possible precaution to avoid stepping on others toes, they still have a higher than normal chance to step on toes.